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FACEBOOK POST My therapist said to me today: “the truth will set you free” And she was referring to all of the secrets I’ve been keeping protecting “people. Letting my doubts and unanswered questions eat me alive with scenarios I create. But with asking the hard questions comes hearing the hard a...

FACEBOOK POST I’ve learned a lot these past few days - an important one is how fragile humans are. We have evolved into being able to love with our whole bodies - and the love we give and receive can literally affect our wellbeing. While we give our heart credit for the ability to love,…

*Previously written and shared to my Facebook three days after the affair was exposed* _________________________________________ Refuse to sleep on the couch and expect a warm spot in bed… Not when you had your arms around another woman less than a week ago. A remorseful man owns his mess. Lays i...

*Previously written and shared on my Facebook three days after the affair was exposed.* _______________________________________________________________ By now, it's probably obvious that there has been some form of infidelity within my relationship; I vowed to stay off Facebook, in part because I...

FACEBOOK POST I couldn’t have said it better…. HE WAS NEVER GONNA TELL YOU UNLESS YOU FOUND OUT. There is a certain kind of pain that words cannot explain. It’s the loud silence of betrayal, the kind that makes your heart heavy even when you try to smile. You gave him your trust, every piece…

FACEBOOK POST He was never going to tell you. You had to find out on your own. And that’s what hurts the most. Not the lie itself.. but the silence. The fact that he was willing to keep going like nothing ever happened. Smiling at you. Saying “I love you.” Letting you trust him, knowing…

*Previously Written* I'm really tired of being the bigger person and keeping the peace for others when I’m losing my own. It is exhausting. One could say it's been a month, time to move on, time to forget about it, to let it go - Unfortunately, that's not me. I never realized the physical effects...

Since the initial shock of the affair is over and I'm working on healing - its a harsh and hard reality seeing just what it has done to me mentally/emotionally. •Triggers - it can be something as small a phone notification, sorting laundry, scented dish soap. Literally the dumbest thing can send ...

We have been back and forth since February 21 about saving our 20 year relationship. You claim that you are all in. No more dating sites, no more Facebook sneaky link groups, no more extra circular sexual encounters. 100% is what you are giving. I suppose I'm the wavering party.... I'm the hurt o...

Dark as roses, and fine as sand I feel your healing and your sting again I hear you laughing and my soul is saved On forgotten graves you cry Crawl like ivy up my spine Through my nerves and into my eyes Cuts like anguish or Recollections of better days gone by But it's alright…