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October 2, 2024
The friend zone has a bad rap. Are our lives diminished by high quality friendships? Fuck no. Studies by Harvard, UCLA, and many other universities tie close relationships to an increased quality of life. So why is it that being in the friend zone fucking sucks? I’m especially hypocritical in thi...
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  • Points for Consistency
    September 9, 2024
    I typed out a whole ass entry, full of eloquence, painting a picture of the loneliness with which I’m grappling. AND THEN I DELETED IT!! I was trying to proofread it and instead I wiped out the entire thing without even saving a draft. I just… is that not the most on-brand OD moment ever????…
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  • See you on Prosebox
    January 27, 2018
    Hello, hello! Just updating to let you any faves know you can find me at Prosebox. Same name, new drama. :)
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  • Updateness
    August 20, 2013
    I've been thinking a lot about why it is that I haven't been writing here.  The reasons are layered, but overall my writing is reflective of my offline behavior: when I'm feeling sensitive or vulnerable, I pull away.  I hide in my little bubble world, where I can look out and watch the ...
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  • Sandwich Slut
    February 6, 2013
    Things have been so busy with work lately that I've had time for little else, including preparing meals for myself. So I have taken to ordering sandwiches around town. The brief amount of time it takes to specify my order is about as much off-the-clock social interaction as I get these days ...
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  • Checking In
    January 27, 2013
    I went from being woefully, desperately underemployed to drowning in billable hours. I've brought on a bunch of Personal Assistant clients and I am terrified that I can't handle it. I'm terrified that I'm not good enough. I'm terrified that I'm going to let everyone down and get fired and th...
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  • 101 in 1,001
    January 13, 2013
    I was originally introduced to Day Zero Project a few years ago right here on OD so I felt like this was the best place to post my list. I've seen some really cute lists that are all organized by category and I wanted to do that, too! But if I wait until I have time…
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  • Two Thousand Twelve
    December 30, 2012
    January: I started the year feeling amazingly confident. I was at the lowest weight in my adult life (at the time -- it kept dropping until summer) and was in the middle of my fitness craze. Working out 4-6 hours a day and eating a super clean diet and feeling altogether amazing. Fitness was...
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  • Shifting Focus
    December 19, 2012
    Life is moving forward at such an intense pace right now. I very much can't afford this, but I don't care. I'm sending a care package to the Italian for Christmas. He is going to be flying into Dallas the day after Christmas and as such, he will be missing out on Christmas with his…
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  • Fantasyland
    December 14, 2012
    Most days I'm happy being single. I lead a very full life and, for better or for worse, there is very little room for a partner. But there are some nights, like tonight, wherein I miss the reliable company of a steady lover. It's really silly things that I fantasize about doing, too. I would…
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