I started writing shortly after OD launched, around 1999 at 11 years old. Of course my original diary was lost in the abyss of teenage angst, but I established this one in 2004...that was a long time ago - it took awhile to get from then to now.
Some things are private, some things were lost when OD went down, some I deleted myself...but this is what remains. $99 for a lifetime subscription as a broke college kid was a solid investment.

Trauma. Depression. Anorexia. Self injury. Anxiety. Promiscuity. Bad decisions. And somehow, a "happily ever after". And now, lots of therapy.

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Butterflies

November 21, 2024
“Sense entered into a short, violent skirmish with instinct and inclination, and was overwhelmed.” - The Cuckoo’s Calling I had never noticed him before - I mean, not in that way at least...though we've probably spoken hundreds of times; he speaks fast and is always moving, so our conversations w...
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  • dull it down
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