Love and Light
Can two people who once loved each other find their way back to each other after a long time?
Say you both needed a break to learn how much you both mean to each other? How about some time apart to learn about you to be stronger, more confident and much happier as an individual and when you get back on track it means it was even better than when it was blissful but this time it lasts? You can choose to see this situation as those things too, you just have to believe it is possible and that you deserve it.
Like I said, this is about you, not him. Choose what makes you happy and build from there. Just do what you can to feel good, love you and let the rest take care of itself.
I will start by telling you that yes, you can get him back, as the man you truly want into the relationship you truly want to.
But this can only happen if BOTH of you change. And you cannot change him. Only he can change himself.
You can only change yourself. And as energies play off each other, your changes within yourself may influence him to become a better person. But it is only influence. He is still responsible for changing himself.
We will tell you to forget him. We will tell you to focus on yourself, because that is the only way the law of attraction can work in your favour.<br style="font-size: 13px; position: static !important; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; letter-spacing: normal; line-height: 17px; orphans: auto; text-align: left; text-indent: 0px; text-transform: none; white-space: normal; widows: auto; wor
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You have already set the desire to the universe (your true self) that you want him in your life. So that is now done. You don’t need to ask again. You can forget it and get on with the job of looking after you.
And you need not worry that he will leave you forever and find somebody else because he’s already been doing that, so clearly whether you stay with him not makes no difference to the way he behaves. So you can put that fear to one side and start concentrating on yourself.
So in short, all this is about your fears, rather than whether this is the right relationship for you, or whether he is the right person for you. The fears that are holding you back from achieving and enjoying the beautiful relationship you deserve. Including the relationship with yourself.
Forget whether he is ready for this relationship – you most certainly are not.
It doesn’t matter whether he keeps coming back to you and telling you that he loves you. Even if he proposes marriage, YOU are the one that now needs to make a break in this relationship. YOU are the one that needs to take control of your life and this co-creation. YOU NEED TO STEP AWAY FROM HIM AND WORK ON YOURSELF.<br style="font-size: 13px; position: static !important; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; letter-spacing: normal; line-height: 17px; or
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Once you have made that decision, you will probably want to know how to go about achieving balance, happiness, and a new life for yourself. And this forum will provide you with plenty of answers.
But the decision is the first step. Until you have made that decision in your head, you won’t be able to move forward with anything else. You don’t even need to feel good about your decision. But you do just need to decide.