Do we grow out of certain friendships?

Its been a while now I have been thinking about how people seem to come and go in our lives. There are friends I’ve had for 20 years who are still by my side and others who are long gone. Not by any means of fights or such just faded away. I feel something is happening again recently inside me. I don’t seem to enjoy the company of my girlfriends any more. They talk about things that no longer reside in me. I think they notice that I have changed as well and some times they don’t even tell me if there is a dinner party any more. I get sad and wonder why and my ego comes to my rescue NOT and tells me things like “they don’t like you , you are not fun any more etc”.

Don’t get me wrong I am not sad that sometimes we aren’t all together at parties its that I have started to elivate to new kind of people, more like myself.

With this I mean the type of topics I love to bury my brain in and these others are the same like me. Found this “womans supper group” where all kind of women come together and eat and talk for 3 hours. All faces are unknown , the woman who started this is from the USA and a yoga guru…

I guess life is ever changing, evolving and energy is that we are made of….so why do I feel so sad? Maybe its lonely to grow spiritualy until you find more people like yourself?? all comments are greatly appreciated

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March 30, 2018

I think that you said it beautifully yourself. 🙂

March 30, 2018

I recently wrote how I shed people as I speed through life.  I think it’s like that old bit about how no one can cross the same river twice — the person has changed and so has the river.

March 30, 2018

I do believe that we out grow relationships and move along on our path in life. Also I believe that in time these long forgotten relationship can blossom again and begin anew.

March 30, 2018

I have the hardest time letting go of friendships. Probably because it is so hard for me to make new ones. But yes… many friendships seem meant for the short term and drifting apart is natural. People change. We’re meant to. And if we all changed in the same ways life would be much less interesting.

March 31, 2018

Thanx guys for your comments…I guess I was right in that I was feeling…things that once seemed right suddenly feel different an its nobodys fault its just us evolving in different directions…