Still Trying to figure Out Life

I am 31 years old, and to be honest I’m still trying to figure myself out. I’m still trying to get ahold of my mental health, I wish that I could just be a bit different than I am. I want nothing more than to change how I act and how I respond to certain things that people and how they act. I don’t appreciate how it affects me, I need more than anything to not care so much if not at all. I also want to stop trying to figure people out and why they are the way they are because it’s not going to do anything to help me, but I know what will help me is to take some time and learn about myself and figure out who I am. One day at a time and one question at a time.