Marriage doesn’t count

I can’t believe how many people don’t take their marriage seriously. I met a guy on a singles site, he was normal and nice and a little sweet. Oh and he’s married with 2 kids. I asked him, why are you on a singles site? Well he explained, my marriage is lacking when it comes to sex. The wife doesn’t want it, and she makes up excuses not to have it. Ok, well being a wife myself at one point, I can say there is a reason for not wanting sex. One, it could be so boring and lacking passion that we would rather sleep. Two, if you have kids and your spouse never helps around the house, your wife doesn’t feel appreciated and will not want to help you feel "appreciated". If you know what I mean.

 I can’t see one moment of passion being worth the breakdown of a marriage. Nothing in this world was worth losing my marriage over. I loved my marriage, maybe not my husband. I was devoted and loyal. I even had sex with him when I didn’t want to because it was my duty too…lol…Don’t laugh…I did do it though. I wanted to make my marriage work. He still cheated, and I understand he felt somewhere that he was not wanted. But that being said, if you have a problem with your wife or husband…Tell them, they can’t read your mind. They really don’t know what they are doing is a problem. This guy is throwing away years of happiness for a f*ck friend. And in the end, its not worth it. You will lose everything you have, and you will realize it is not worth it.