I need to take my profile off the dating sites

Well I have added a profile on an online dating site. I have met some men, nothing where I said more than a "hello" too. Last night I wanted to be nice and chat with this guy on MSN that sounded nice. Someone that I would like to maybe get to know. So we chatted a little and he seemed interesting. So I decided to call him. I never provide my phone number to anyone, so in case I meet a strange man it will never be of any harm. So I called him. And the conversation started out fine, until he started planning out our lives together. Marriage and children and when we can meet and it really scared me. I realized that if I was to meet someone now, I would want to take it slow. And this, it really made me run. He is nuts. I can partly understand that you can get to a point where you are so lonely you just want to be loved and with someone. I just never had anyone do it to me. Normally I am the one to just sleep with a guy the day I meet him and the first time I decide to get to know someone they are planning my life. It really freaked me out. So much I have decided to take my profile off the dating site and forget all about the dating world.

Maybe its because its been 4 years since I have dated, but I really don’t think it has changed that much. He even told me that when he "talks" to a girl it means that he will not talk to any other woman. Now maybe that seems sweet to him, but its just talking…Its not like we are engaged or married, and even than who does that.? Gawd…I know I am going on and on, but this was freaky…I have gone from one extreme to another. I think at this point, I would rather be alone than with some serious f*cked up people….lol….The weird thing is, with the technology we have today, no one meets the old fashion way. I would still like to meet a nice man, someone who is normal. But I think that is something I will have to go off the island for.

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October 28, 2007

hmm a crazy person from the internet nothing new there. And not that it matters much if at all, the first person i ever communicated with regularly online (some 12+ years ago) was from PEI…..good luck with your search, i definitely know what that feels like whenever i get sick of being alone.