Theme entry.

This weeks theme question is:

What is the one thing most people don’t know about you?

I could answer this by speaking abiout things that I haven’t spoken about in here before. Things that I haven’t spoken about simply because the subject hasn’t arisen.

But, instead I’ve decided to reveal something else.

Something that I doubt I’ve even told more than 15-20 people before in my life.

OK. Here goes.

I have a daughter.

Don’t ask me her name cos I’ve never been told it. Don’t ask what she looks like, cos I’ve never seen her, nor a picture of her.

Her mother (my ex) and I split up when she was pregnant. (Her choice, not mine. She decided that the news would make an ideal Chrismas present.) We then fell out over a few things (for which we were probably both to blame).

Then, just after I knew she was due I visited the maternity hospital, asked to see her only to be told that she didn’t want to see me.

So what do I know about her? Well, at the begining of June she’ll be 9 years old. And, thanks to the fact that my brother saw her (from a distance) at an event he was working at, she’s got thick, dark hair.

So, yeah. There you go. One thing most people don’t know about me.

Will

Oribeth

April 1, 2007

Wow. Just.. wow. Is there any note I could have left that would make me sound more dumb? I doubt it. RYNs: Thanks for the virtual hugs, much needed and appreciated. *big hugs back*

Jodie

I am sorry you can’t have a realtionship with your daughter….you ex is being a B**CH.

april fools?

~She Who Wanders~

Ya can sue for ya rights as her father.Not sure what the laws are but if ya want to have contact she can’t stop you.If not i would write her notes and save them for the time when she comes searching for you which she most likely will do when she gets older.Something to think about.Sorry she’s not a good ex.Big Hugs~Joan

Wow. Now that was a real secret. Not sure what to say. I wonder if she knows about you or if she has another father in her life that she believe is her biological father. RYN. I wish LOL

JustSte

April 2, 2007

oooo… well i would never of guessed that!

Re: Eeek. Well, as someone else said, you do ave rights and should look into it if you want a relationship with her.

findingsunshine

🙁 I can’t image how hard that must be for you. I just can’t. *hugs* Previous noters are correct – you have rights. You are entitled at the very least to MEET her! And as someone who grew up without a father, I have to say she needs her Dad. Even if she doesn’t see him all the time, she just needs to know that her Dad thinks of her and loves her. *more hugs* D xo

ebony-ivory

April 3, 2007

That’s really bad. You should be able to see her.

I knew this already, but yeah… *HUG*