Missed popularity

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I can understand why people want popularity. I just don’t relate to it. Here are some of the reasons. Power, validation the sense that they do have people who will be there for them, because of the proof of the quantity of people on their facebook, myspace etc. And some people are comfortable with being extroverted. They have the flock mentality.

I can understand why people want popularity. I just don’t relate to it. Here are some of the reasons. Power, validation the sense that they do have people who will be there for them, because of the proof of the quantity of people on their facebook, myspace etc. And some people are comfortable with being extroverted. They have the flock mentality.

I can understand why people want popularity. I just don’t relate to it. Here are some of the reasons. Power, validation the sense that they do have people who will be there for them, because of the proof of the quantity of people on their facebook, myspace etc. And some people are comfortable with being extroverted. They have the flock mentality.

this would be why i mass deleted about 85% of my ‘friends’ on facebook the other day. It was very cleansing.

this would be why i mass deleted about 85% of my ‘friends’ on facebook the other day. It was very cleansing.

this would be why i mass deleted about 85% of my ‘friends’ on facebook the other day. It was very cleansing.

I completely agree. I want my immediate family and two or three close friends to like me, but really I’d rather the rest of the world was indifferent toward me.

I completely agree. I want my immediate family and two or three close friends to like me, but really I’d rather the rest of the world was indifferent toward me.

I completely agree. I want my immediate family and two or three close friends to like me, but really I’d rather the rest of the world was indifferent toward me.

I think popularity obsession is often a symptom of low self-esteem. At least that seems to be the case with the ones I’ve met. These are people who either don’t know themselves or don’t like themselves, and need the constant attention of others to feel better about themselves. I helps them feel validated. They need someone telling that they’re worthwhile at all times.

I think popularity obsession is often a symptom of low self-esteem. At least that seems to be the case with the ones I’ve met. These are people who either don’t know themselves or don’t like themselves, and need the constant attention of others to feel better about themselves. I helps them feel validated. They need someone telling that they’re worthwhile at all times.

I think popularity obsession is often a symptom of low self-esteem. At least that seems to be the case with the ones I’ve met. These are people who either don’t know themselves or don’t like themselves, and need the constant attention of others to feel better about themselves. I helps them feel validated. They need someone telling that they’re worthwhile at all times.

It may sound whiny or weak-minded, but oftentimes they can’t help it. It takes experience to develop strength of character, and not everyone gets it. Deep down, these people would usually trade all their superficial friendships if they could just find one person they shared a deep connection with. At least that seems to be true of the people I know who are like that.

It may sound whiny or weak-minded, but oftentimes they can’t help it. It takes experience to develop strength of character, and not everyone gets it. Deep down, these people would usually trade all their superficial friendships if they could just find one person they shared a deep connection with. At least that seems to be true of the people I know who are like that.

It may sound whiny or weak-minded, but oftentimes they can’t help it. It takes experience to develop strength of character, and not everyone gets it. Deep down, these people would usually trade all their superficial friendships if they could just find one person they shared a deep connection with. At least that seems to be true of the people I know who are like that.

Personally, I think you can have self-knowledge and a high self esteem and still want your parties to be full of people. I’d consider myself fairly popular, and I’m always after new friends (because it opens me up to new experiences) but my true friends are the ones who have proven themselves to be there for me.

Personally, I think you can have self-knowledge and a high self esteem and still want your parties to be full of people. I’d consider myself fairly popular, and I’m always after new friends (because it opens me up to new experiences) but my true friends are the ones who have proven themselves to be there for me.

Personally, I think you can have self-knowledge and a high self esteem and still want your parties to be full of people. I’d consider myself fairly popular, and I’m always after new friends (because it opens me up to new experiences) but my true friends are the ones who have proven themselves to be there for me.

I know just what you mean, the sort of scumbag who starts a group called ‘THEY ARE SHUTTING DOWN FACEBOOK!!!!!!!!!!! JOIN THIS GROUP TO SAVE IT AND SET THE GUINESS WORLD RECORD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!’ just so they can have lots of members and feel popular. It’s whatever floats your boat though I guess.

I know just what you mean, the sort of scumbag who starts a group called ‘THEY ARE SHUTTING DOWN FACEBOOK!!!!!!!!!!! JOIN THIS GROUP TO SAVE IT AND SET THE GUINESS WORLD RECORD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!’ just so they can have lots of members and feel popular. It’s whatever floats your boat though I guess.

I know just what you mean, the sort of scumbag who starts a group called ‘THEY ARE SHUTTING DOWN FACEBOOK!!!!!!!!!!! JOIN THIS GROUP TO SAVE IT AND SET THE GUINESS WORLD RECORD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!’ just so they can have lots of members and feel popular. It’s whatever floats your boat though I guess.

I have a theory about this relating to technology – it’s the theory of “Unless someone else validates it, it’s not true”. They actually perceive themselves to be nanocelebs who people are interested in their lives… Oh look it’s a photo of me, and I’m thinking this, and doing that… Talk to me people, I NEED TO FEEL WORTHY!!!! (I’m not one of them!)

I have a theory about this relating to technology – it’s the theory of “Unless someone else validates it, it’s not true”. They actually perceive themselves to be nanocelebs who people are interested in their lives… Oh look it’s a photo of me, and I’m thinking this, and doing that… Talk to me people, I NEED TO FEEL WORTHY!!!! (I’m not one of them!)

I have a theory about this relating to technology – it’s the theory of “Unless someone else validates it, it’s not true”. They actually perceive themselves to be nanocelebs who people are interested in their lives… Oh look it’s a photo of me, and I’m thinking this, and doing that… Talk to me people, I NEED TO FEEL WORTHY!!!! (I’m not one of them!)

I agree with [CookieBurglar], but I think it goes the other way as well. You have the people with low self-esteem who surround themselves with a lot of people on superficial levels. Sure. But you also have people who have been spoiled their entire lives and were born believing that they are a gift to the world, that anyone would be LUCKY to know them, and who treat all of their “friends” like shit. I don’t think those kinds of people are capable of having a more meaningful connection with someone. They’re the ones you mentioned AND the ones who have to have the biggest and grandest events (weddings, for example) because they’re just so popular. The ones who are getting married to see how many people they can pack into a church rather than because they actually love someone. I always think, wow… Look at how many people showed up who don’t even really like you or know you at all. Yep.

I agree with [CookieBurglar], but I think it goes the other way as well. You have the people with low self-esteem who surround themselves with a lot of people on superficial levels. Sure. But you also have people who have been spoiled their entire lives and were born believing that they are a gift to the world, that anyone would be LUCKY to know them, and who treat all of their “friends” like shit. I don’t think those kinds of people are capable of having a more meaningful connection with someone. They’re the ones you mentioned AND the ones who have to have the biggest and grandest events (weddings, for example) because they’re just so popular. The ones who are getting married to see how many people they can pack into a church rather than because they actually love someone. I always think, wow… Look at how many people showed up who don’t even really like you or know you at all. Yep.

I agree with [CookieBurglar], but I think it goes the other way as well. You have the people with low self-esteem who surround themselves with a lot of people on superficial levels. Sure. But you also have people who have been spoiled their entire lives and were born believing that they are a gift to the world, that anyone would be LUCKY to know them, and who treat all of their “friends” like shit. I don’t think those kinds of people are capable of having a more meaningful connection with someone. They’re the ones you mentioned AND the ones who have to have the biggest and grandest events (weddings, for example) because they’re just so popular. The ones who are getting married to see how many people they can pack into a church rather than because they actually love someone. I always think, wow… Look at how many people showed up who don’t even really like you or know you at all. Yep.

Sometimes Opendiary feels like one big popularity contest. I really feel like I’m back in High School sometimes. It makes me feel sad.

Sometimes Opendiary feels like one big popularity contest. I really feel like I’m back in High School sometimes. It makes me feel sad.

Sometimes Opendiary feels like one big popularity contest. I really feel like I’m back in High School sometimes. It makes me feel sad.

I can understand these people easily – they have low self esteem and little confidence in themselves. So they look at numbers for validation. Having 400 “friends” somehow reassures you that yes you are worthy, yes you are great. Can’t beat the real thing though.

I can understand these people easily – they have low self esteem and little confidence in themselves. So they look at numbers for validation. Having 400 “friends” somehow reassures you that yes you are worthy, yes you are great. Can’t beat the real thing though.

I can understand these people easily – they have low self esteem and little confidence in themselves. So they look at numbers for validation. Having 400 “friends” somehow reassures you that yes you are worthy, yes you are great. Can’t beat the real thing though.

One of my old best friends turned out to be like that, and that was always my comfort – she may be more “popular” but none of those people are real friends. What does it matter if you’re in the spotlight if you’re alone at the end of the night?

One of my old best friends turned out to be like that, and that was always my comfort – she may be more “popular” but none of those people are real friends. What does it matter if you’re in the spotlight if you’re alone at the end of the night?

One of my old best friends turned out to be like that, and that was always my comfort – she may be more “popular” but none of those people are real friends. What does it matter if you’re in the spotlight if you’re alone at the end of the night?