5 days off sucks!/Advice please

So we are relocating our classrooms from the hospital to a newly built learning center. The learning center is closer for me then the hospital but still in BFE. Can’t complain too much some of my classmates drive 30 minutes just to the class. Anyways, so I have been off since Thursday. OMG going insane.

So Thursday rolls around and Warden contacts the HR for the county she works at. Somehow someway, she has been "term: from the county which doesn’t make sense as her mail stated she just gave up her positiion at the medical center. Well in plain English, since she gave no call no show for weeks, they finally let her go. As well they should’ve….she never does anything So she threw a pity party then  BUT what strikes me as odd, the county has their own disability insurance place they if you get hurt at work or car accident, you go through Hartford. Well hartford is still paying her so how is she "term"? Then Warden is like well maybe I can collect unemployment which she can but why when Harfford is paying her? Granted they may ask for the money back but Warden can act like she didn’t know which isn’t really a lie. The "term" happened in December and she just found on February 23rd.

BUT then her therapist talks to Warden about maybe going back to work part time. Never asks Warden to ask her boss just mentions it to her and so I call for her and tell her that when she mentioned going back to work part time her work wouldn’t allow it. Her therapist kinda gave her a hard time over it as thats not what was discussed at their last meeting so IDK. Hartford is waiting for the therapist to call them back and she hasn’t done it yet so hopefully the therapist doesn’t wait 2 weeks and have it 2 weeks behind.

********PLEASE READ*************So I had talked to this guy before and he was scary. I swore he had multiple personalities. He was intense as he didn’t even know what I looked like and he wanted us to move to his land in Utah as I was goiing through the rough patch with county mom and told him I needed to get away. Yes that was my stupidity for saying that but anyone who really didn’t know anyone, wouldn’t up and say hey let’s move to Utah. lol yes AirG killer, let’s up and move to No Man’s Land where you can kill me and bury me. Anyways, so I up and stopped talking to him, No reason why no nothing, Then just recently he Instant Messaged me and just said hi. He has since toned himself down. He isn’t moving fast at all. But still shows an interest  Now he is a painter and is his own boss. He has three houses to paint on top of the current one he is painting now. But yet he gets online at 1 or 2 or even 3 AM claiming thats his only time he can get online. Now yes i don’t deserve red carpet treatment after what I did to him earlier on but if you’re interested wouldn’t you get online whenever you got the chance? Am I over reading this? A friend of mine thinks he might be married and gets online when she goes to sleep. Now before we up and left our relatioship, if you want to call it that, before, he had told me he was molested as a kid and hated going to sleep at night as nights created nightmares for him so I understand that aspect but not at 8 PM? Or even 11 PM? IDK what do you guys think? I’m gonna ask him about it tonight but I’d like to hear your thoughts. Sorry so long

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February 26, 2012

Hm…At first I was thinking ‘well if that’s the only time he can get on, then so be it’ but then I thought back to all my internet friends and in the beginning, we would always find ourselves talking all hours of the day, waking up early just to see if the other was on, and talking during work and school and into the night. He’s not new but…do ask him those questions

February 27, 2012

IM SO SO SO MAD AT YOU! LOL not really just typing things but yeah and missy why didnt you tell me you was talking to WACKO again? LOL I dont have any advice about him sorry. I think he is a nut case.

February 29, 2012

As for the guy thing. I can understand not wanting to sleep at night.. kinda. Maybe? Your friend may be right. Especially if its very constant when he gets on. As for the whole.. I dunno. I wouldn’t even bother with someone who even HAD split personality disorder. But that.. is just me. I had a friend who was heartbroken, he went and dated a chick who was straight out of the asylum (spent a month

February 29, 2012

a month there) and then all of a sudden she’s better. Oh yeah.. she went in cuz she tried to kill her own brother with a butcher knife. Last I spoke to him (3 years ago) they were engaged. She holds his V-card but treats him like utter shiite. So thats my experience with crazies. Oh and my wife also had a guy fawning over her before I came along, who sounds alot like this guy, He had assbergers.