this sucks

day one of no caffeine and my head is friggin killing me. I had about 4 hours sleep last night because my lower back and hip are killing (more reason to lose some weight). I get up this morning head to work (in case i didnt mention i am cleaning houses for extra income) Clean a huge dirty house and while I’m there i ask my wonderful husband to please unload the dishwasher so i dont have to when i get home because i have about a million other things to do. He says no he would like to sit down for a little while. Ok I get that he works 3rd shift but he sleeps like 13 hours a damn day…how much more rest does one person really need??? So of course i came home immediately went to the kitchen and started cleaning. And yes i did have attitude and yes i was slamming stuff because it pisses me off. So he had the nerve to ask me why i had an attitude.I said "I’ll just start telling you no when you ask me to do something for you and see how mad that makes you" its not like i ask him to clean the whole house or even clean part of it everyday. just days when i’m exhausted and need a little help. so I’ve gotten the house clean and he’s sleeping and I wont get to go to bed until he leaves for work at 10pm tonight because he might need help with something getting ready for work. I really just wish he would realize all the things i do without even waiting until I’m asked. I dont do any of it because i have to I do it because i love him and the kids. I do it because i like making the day a little easier for them. I just wish someone/anyone loved me that much…guess its asking a little too much