adult friends

I seriously need to learn how to become friends with adults and not children with an adult age who want me to mother them. Seriously! I know that friendships are about leaning on each other and depending on soemone in a time of need, but who do I get to lean on? When do I get to need something? I have one friend who never asks me for anything. She is amazing but recently moved away so we only have phone conversations. I guess I should count my blessings to have her and my hubby, and yes I consider him my friend now. We have been through a ton but I think he finally realizes that I am worth loving. It took a few years of hell and "standing by my man" but I think we are stronger for it. Some days I can’t believe how close we are now. I had all but given up hope that we would have a lasting marriage. He has really shocked me though. He is the man I fell in love with again. He makes an effort to make sure I am happy on a daily basis. It is kinda nice to be pursued. Anyway, not sure what my point of this entry was except that I’m just frustrated with people in general.