:-(

so, unfortunately I completely and totally blew the whole healthy eating thing this weekend. It is so hard when it feels like I get no support from the hubby. We both need to lose the weight. We ALL need to eat healthier and be more active. But he says he’s not motivated…. I’m not always motivated either but I’m tired of feeling bad all the time. I just dont know why it always seems like we are on different wave lengths. I have no friends who will do it with me. I have no one that I can talk to about it because everyone is either naturally thin or just doesnt care that they are out of shape and overweight. Maybe I should just give up. I havent even weighed since I ate so much this weekend. I dont think I’m going to. I dont know what to do. I have been going for walks with the kids but no real exercise. No cardio no weight training none of that because it’s just hard to do by yourself. God, here I am bitching about nonsense again. Sorry to everyone who reads I swear I dont try to be a downer. Hope everyone is doing well

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April 12, 2010

Just saw u on the front page. I have always struggled with my weight. Doing weight watchers now and it’s a new thing for me. I’d be happy to try and be a support for u if u like.

April 12, 2010

i hear ya. i’m trying to stop drinking. my main motivation is to save my marriage. small tiffs become wars when alcohol is applied. and he drinks too much EVERY day. i’ve given him the ultimatum which i know is NOT the way to get someone to stop but….i don’t know what else to do. i CAN do it alone but…w/out his efforts i lose my motivation.

April 12, 2010

you know, i’ve taped ‘fight club’ three times and yet to watch it. i taped it for HIM but he fell asleep twice in the first 10 minutes. Maybe i’ll watch it tonight so i’ll know what you meant in yr note? maybe?