Upset with my mom!!!!!!
Because of a distinct oder in the bathroom my mom asked me if my bf was jacking off in the bathroom. i was like hell no. so when i told him about that. he got really upset. especially since he then proceeded to tell me that we could possibly break up over my mom because he couldn’t take it anymore that scared the living hell outta me. i can’t lose him if he leaves i leave with him and forsake my mother because he means the world to me nothing else really matters to me but J. and i know that is obvious to you people who read me on a regular basis shit but what do u do? how do you deal with something like this? how do u tell ur mom to back off ur bf because she might blow the relationship? Argggggggggggghhh there is no easy way for this is there?
u need to just tell her back of jsut like that. you need to tell her your an adult and stop terating u like she can control everything.good luck
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tell her how you FEEL…tell her your boyfriend is going to break up with you over that little incident and how it’s unfair. next time don’t tell your boyfriend what your mom says about him if you think it’s going to mess up things in your relationship. what part of illinois are you from? i’m from chicago, IL.
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I wouldn’t bring in the talk of him wanting to break up over cause of her, she could turn it on you. And not in a good way. I’d say as long as you and J are able to make it somewhere w/out your mom, then leave with him. Be honest with J about what your mom says… if she says something bad, then ask her where her basis is. If there’s no proof, ask her to say nothing. It’s not her relationship
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