Thinkin……
My bf has come close to being in severe accidents do to the severe weather out here in ILL. We’ve had soem discussions abotu this. and he’s been having a lot of bad luck lately. he’s been thinking about giving up… *SIGHZ* as we head into our year anniversary (plan on celebrating early cus i have to work on the 28th) gives me a lot to think about and us a lot to think about.
such as:
— where are we headed
— do we get a place of our own
— do we stay together
— continue this buiness venture?
lots of things that i dont want to post here right now either just because im too drained from today. We got to make love today it was soooooo nice. *sighZ* i wish i could have him inside me all day …. OKis YEs i knwo TMI. lol deal with it.
imma outties.
Do you need to answer those questions right now?? Sure, move in together! That’ll be the best way to answer the rest of the questions, really. But remember that you don’t HAVE to have the answers to those questions right now. Chances are, if you get those answers now, if something changes in the next few years, or you just decide to take a BREAK to be SURE this is what you want, then you’re going
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to end up one confused chicky because you thought you knew everything about this relationship and where it’s headed and what it means, etc.. For now it sounds like you’re just very much in love, so enjoy that feeling and don’t overanalyze it. As my boyfriend has asked me in the past when I’ve tried to make sense of our situation “can’t we just be happy?” Hmm. Yes. Congrats on the anniversary.
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sounds difficult. i’ve been there. it’s usually under such circumstances that i break up and move on, but that may not be the best choice for you.
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