My answers to my only questions

hmmm i’m interested to learn more about your faith…

when you say, born again rebuilding —  [HotGayBoy80]

did that come to you all at once, or was it a process?  In a sense all at once. Watched heavens Gates and Hell’s Flames as a play and it just strucks a cord. because up till then i went to church because i had to not because i wanted to. If ya wanna search back its documentated in my diary around 2001 dec i think.

do you believe in heaven and hell, and if so, what are some things that would lead a soul to one place or the other?

Yes i believe in heaven and hell, To get to heaven there really is no written way to just get there because we all make mistakes. We screw up, we make mistakes. Its human nature. However, Treat people with repsect, do unto others as you would have them do to you, i believe is going in the right direction for heaven. Hell is and can be many things. I consider my life here on earth hell for all the things i seem to go through. but have made it out of. so life is a hell in sense. but to be condemmed for eterenity i think you would have to be about the meanest person on earth. 

who do you look up to as good example of a religious leader? My female Pastor. She gets the message across and it means a lot to me and the fellow practioners at my church. We are small but we are a few of the many.

.what are the top three qualities that you HAVE to have in a man? [PickingMyselfUpAgain]

Hrmzzz it all depends their mind is more important than looks.  I mean my man isn’t super skinny or super smart. he supports me and accepts me as the crazy woman i can be and he loves me inspite of it all. Age is of no consequence unless its under 18. my bf and i have 33 years between us.  Be open to all things when trying to select a mate. Online, life, it can happen anywhere. My bf n i met in Yahoo chat room 6  so who knows.  But i think a lot of it depends on how ur intrests are . if you have a lot of similiar things that interest you then you can make it work.