What to do…

I don’t know you or the full situation but if she’s so unstable maybe just don’t hang around her very often or at least until she gets herself sorted out.

Woah. hmm.. I dunno. The problem is that we can’t help who we are drawn to..

i’d say stay away sir. if you’re feeling the doubt vibe before jumping in, trust your gut. but then again, i am the biggest hypocrite to that statement in the whole world. haha

and oh yeah, the first noter said to maybe not hang out with her until after she gets sorted out–i’ve known this guy josh, who i rarely write about on od for many reasons, for two and a half years, and have been waiting for him to straighten up for that long. hasn’t happened yet. some people just can’t do it and it’s better to stay away. but then again, hypocriteeeeeeeeeeeeee

Yikes…if you’re doubting things now, I’d say it’s not a good idea.

Well, of course you’re gonna be scared/have doubt because love is a BIG DEAL. So is marriage. I wouldn’t necessarily shy away from her, but you should have a “talk.” I know it sounds lame, but getting everything out in the open is always a big help.

ryn: sigh. i want uber devoted. just someone who won’t leave, you know? You know.. there is nothing in this world that is worth something huge, if it doesn’t come with a little risk. We can all be unstable.. but one amazing person can make all the difference. I wouldn’t turn your back on her so quickly, my dear.

ryn: Sorry it took me so long to respond, but thank you so much for your note. 🙂

The risk is always the hardest part.