More About The Girl…

Hello ladies… and Michael,

I have a lot going on with me right now. But I’m just not willing to talk about them. A lot of it is drama. And the rest is school and life in general.

But to continue from a previous entry…

The name of the girl I met is Michelle. She is 22 years old. She is different in many ways from me, but not necessarily my opposite. She likes games! She has an 18 month old daughter named Ayalah, which is Hebrew for “God is my Strength”. And Michelle knows Hebrew because she’s Jewish.

Crazy eh? I’ve never dated a Jewish person before. Although technically I’m not dating her yet. I haven’t met her yet.

I will be meeting her either today (Saturday) or tomorrow (Sunday). I’m really excited about that.

Let’s put her up to my 7 item checklist.

1) Has a heart

–I think she has a heart, but I wont guarantee this one until I’ve known her for longer.

2) Intelligent

–Yar. She’s a nurse. Graduated and working with a degree.

3) Funny

–Definetly. I’ve been chatting with her since Sunday.

4) Likes Games

–That’s what drew me to her profile in the first place. She went on a tangent about how she likes games, and whatever guy contacts her has to like them to.

5) Dark hair

–Check

6) Dark eyes

–Check

7) Boobs

–I haven’t met her yet, so I don’t know, and even though it’s terrible to say this… I’ll find out when I meet her. ROFL. I’m a guy. There’s no way I could spend an entire day with her without noticing, okay!?!?

……..STOP JUDGING ME!

That’s the biggest issue about having 90% female readers. I feel like a dirtbag when I display typical guy traits.

So she has 5 out of 7 guaranteed.
1 possible.
And 1 unknown.

That’s pretty good. HOWEVER. Number 1 is still a REQUIREMENT. So even if she met the other 6 completely, without number 1 I don’t think I could give her a chance. I’m tired of the heartbreak.

She thinks I’m like the ultimate catch right now. Or at least that’s how she talks to me. Or how I’m perceiving being talked to. lol. She is divorced. And she’s had a very abusive ex husband in her past that makes her… pretty much believe all men are satan.

She has self-image issues because of her ex. She doesn’t think she is hot, or beautiful, or anything that might catch the eyes of a guy. She tells me all the time that she feels bad because I workout and she doesn’t and she’s fat and blah blah blah. Women Worry Wart stuff.

We’re talking seriously abusive. He broke her ribs, her nose, her finger, and has broken a few other of her bones and body parts in the past, she hasn’t even told me all of them yet. And this man is the father of her child, by the way.

Well I have to confess if she is going to compare me to him, I don’t even have to try and I’m going to come out as solid gold over that douche. I just don’t know how I’m going to react if I meet this wife-beater. I may very well attack him. I have pet peeves about men who hit women. Because men who hit women aren’t men. They are boys. I like the way Amanda worded it. Manboys. Men who are boys.

Either way. She has her own place with her and her daughter. She pays for her EX’s place (alimony) because she was the only bread-winner in their marriage because the douche NEVER held a job.

I should probably stop. I’m getting on a tangent about her ex that deviates from her and could very well be uber sensitive. I will make this a F.O. entry.

I just don’t like him. Hell I’m sure by now my readers don’t like him either.

But anyways, I invited her to go out to eat at a restaurant with me (Ayalah included). The restaurant is her choice, and so is the day. But I’M paying.

She wants me to bring my SNES collection (My babies) so that we can play one of my games together. Which to me is like foreplay before sex. That shit is hot.

We’ve been texting all week and we have also talked on the phone for a few hours. I’m looking forward to meeting her.

I’ll update as soon as I can when I finally meet her.

Here’s a picture: Picture

She is an ISTJ according to MBTI. A Guardian Inspector.
The Inspector

I am an INFJ. An Idealist Counselor.
The Counselor

And if YOU readers would like to take the same MBTI test as I… go to http://www.humanmetrics.com and on the left side of the page is a link that says “Jung Typology Test”. Take it. But if you do, post your results as a note! Your type and a link to describe your type. =)

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In other news… I love one of my current classes. Data Structures. We pretty much talk about general traits of… building programs, and how certain data structures are better suited for jobs than others. Does anybody here remember the old game from Milton Bradley called “Simon”? Well my first homework assignment in class was to make that game. It was awesome, and I did.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Simon_(game)

You can play a flash version of Simon on this site. Just click the “Play Simon” on the left side of the site.

http://www.neave.com/games/simon/

Simon made by Neave Games

Well I hope all my favorites are having a nice week. So far I am. Wish me luck on the unknown drama.

~Bruce