Aunt/Great Aunt ????

My niece had her baby yesterday. He is healthy and beautiful. She is contemplating giving him up for adoption to my brother and his wife but she has not made a final decision. Babies usually make me happy but this is stressing me out. I am fine whatever she decides but my brother and his wife are so stressed and I feel their pain and my niece is so torn I feel her pain and I am not involved in any of it.