Monster-in-law

Deannas mom has been something else the past week or so. 

Deanna changed floors at the hospital and has changed to a 12 hour shift.  We did this so we can work around a daycare schedule for Aaden.  We know that he needs structure in order to prepare him for preschool.  Anyway, the first daycare we took him to was all playtime.  When he got there the kids were watching movies and when we picked him up he was watching movies.  They played outside but they played mostly in the dirt with a few toys.  No arts and crafts…no learning that we could tell.  AND…when we asked everyday what he ate for lunch…they always said he ate 100% of whatever he was given.  Now, Aaden does not eat BBQ Chicken….fajitas….peas…..there is no way. And if he did….he surely wouldnt eat 100% every single day.  We also took him to this daycare because it was close to Deannas work and close for her mom to pick him up…..

So I looked around and found a better structured "school".  They have a daily schedule and they follow it.  They also teach a Bible verse every week and I wanted that for him.  They never watch TV and thats good because he gets enough of that at home. =)   They have a nice playground and its at one of the newer churches here….BUT, it is alot further from Deannas mom.  See, when he was at daycare her mom always rushed to pick him up.  then bitch about it.  She wanted him to stay at the first daycare because she had some control over him.  We learned the hard way that we can not give her ANY control because she will try and take over. 

So the other day, it was Wednesday and I was off.  I still took him to daycare because he needs to stay on schedule and its paid for.  Deannas mom has never been to the new school so the plan was for her to go with me to get him at 3:30.  We confirmed the plans about 2pm and I laid down for a quick nap.  Right at 3:30, Deannas sister texts me and said that they were stuck running errands with their dad and they wouldnt be home until 4:15.  Well, he had been at daycare since 9:30am and I was ready to go and get him.  So I texted back that I was just going to get him and not wait.  Their errand that they were on was out for dinner…

So that day at school, McGruff the crime dog was there doing crime safety.  And I paid for them to make ID cards of Aaden and also fingerprints and a DNA kit JUST IN CASE he ever goes missing. (or commits a crime later in life they have his fingerprints) lol

Anyway, we paid extra for extra cards and I gave Deannas mom and 2 sisters ID cards…..and this is what mom told Deanna.  She thinks that we have now set Aaden up to be kidnapped…..that we shouldnt have done the cards and etc…..WTF??????????????????

Cause if we didnt think ahead and try to be safe and have fingerprints on file and DNA on file….we are ASKING for him to be kidnapped.  Like we "jinxed" ourselves…UGHHHHHH

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and her mom  and sister drink all, the. time…..they were drinking last night.  We stayed at home with Aaden. 

Im just glad that Deanna sees her moms evil personality.  SO GLAD!