I Can’t Let Go!!!
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this entry is not about me (even though i have been there b4). this is more so of wanting to see other peoples thoughts, feelings, and opinons on the subject. so please feel free to share. your responses will help someone i promise.
well, i have several friends (mostly female, cuz 98% of my friends are femlae) who are in situations where they wont let someone or something go.
my question is… how much hurt do you have to experience? how much trying to fix it do you have to do? before you realize its either not gonna get any better or you can’t fix it and that you need to let it or them go?
i mean its like cancer. you go to the doctor
doctor– you hav cancer.
you– what do i do?
doctor– its not serious yet, we can do surgery and remove it.
you-but doctor i’ve become so attatched to it. i love it. its a part of me. i dont think i could live without it. i’m not ready to let it go. isnt there something else we could do instead of getting rid of it?
doctor-no, if we leave it too long it’ll grow and kill you.
you-but…
who would do that? why would anyone be like that? but when you wont let something or someone go and you know you should that kinda what you do and say. God is the doctor and he tries and wants to remove those people, places, and things from your life that are killing you. and when you won’t let go your saying you;d rather have cancer and have it kill you then let him remove it or them.
it is much, much easier to tell someone to let someone or something go than it is for that person to actually do it.
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To let go is one thing… But to give it to God and REALLY leave it with Him is sometimes hard. I know from experience. I have given this problem of not trusting to God so many times, but I keep taking it back. I give it to Him again, and do it over and over. One day though, I know I will leave it with him for good. It gets longer and longer in between the times I take it back. When one has been hurt or abused so bad, and even brain washed in thinking they are no good, no one would ever want them, they are a piece of dirt! It can and is hard to just get over. I know we put ourselves though hell over and over again when we don’t really need to. And one day when the Light is really seen, it will be done! Have patience and be gentle with these women but don’t pity them. Pity and Love are so close that sometimes it is hard to tell them apart. God bless and have a wonderful weekend.
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hmmm
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ryn: that means a lot, thanks. 🙂 and you never know, someone out there may be dreaming about you.
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ryn: thanks, I’ll keep that in mind. annnd you never know what people are thinking(or dreaming) about you so don’t get too down on yourself man.
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okay here is the thing because recently i was in this position. there is a reason why you love someone…and that reason is why we hold on. especially when letting go is more painful than holding on. yes holding on hurts more over a longer period of time…but that moment it hurts less. you have to get to the breaking point before you can even think about letting go.
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my phone is broken and i cant afford to replace it right now…thats why you dont hear from me. SORRY
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