9 Months – NY?

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Hey friends what seems to be going on over here?  Not much, I’m kind of eating and doing stuff online so I thought I would pop by real quick to say what’s up.  Things have been ok.  I had mentioned that things had been a little weird or stressful or whatever but yesterday was pretty good.  I was like….I dunno just blah on Saturday because usually I’ll get at least one text from Randy while he’s at work.  Either when he’s on his break or at lunch or something….and there was nothing.  Just after work when he asked if I needed/wanted anything.  

Then the evening was kinda interesting I don’t really know why.  We just kinda sat around and did nothing for an hour or two…didn’t really talk and when We did it was just really short responses and stuff.  I had my music on when he got home cuz I was unloading the dishwasher and reloading it…then he came in and started watching videos or whatever on his Game dashboard, so I just turned off my music.  meh.

Anyway, so I was gonna wash the stuff that didn’t go in the dishwasher, but we didn’t have any dishwashing liquid…and we had also run out of paper towel the night before.  So I went and checked the mail, but there was nothing and I asked him if he remembered if the 99¢ store sold just single rolls of paper towel or if they sold them in packs.  And he couldn’t remember but said we could go to Walmart for that…and I also mentioned we were out of dish soap.

So we went to Walmart and got that.  Around that time my bro had said that he was gonna come for me after he got off work, which was 7:30, but it was 7 and I told him we were going to the store so I’d stop by afterwards to get it but we ended up going to the store to buy some rolls and met up with him there.  So I took him home and Randy came home.

But yeah we had dinner that night and it was still just really quiet.  Went to bed and nothing.  Yesterday after I got home from babysitting, I had to go deposit the check and some other money so we did that and then had to come back home and pick up the RedBox movie to turn that in before 9 (at like 8:56 seriously lol).  Then it was like hmm what do we want to eat.  So KFC was closed and so we just went to Applebees.  He wanted a beer and we did the 2 for $20 which was fun.   Yesterday was a lot better.  We actually talked and it was like normal.  

But we had kind of had a bit of a conversation earlier in the day about the job situation.  He’s obviously VERY tired of HD because of how they keep just passing over him as far as promotion opportunities go.  So he text me earlier in the day saying that he didn’t even want to go to work.  I joked and told him to say he sprained his ankle and call in and then we could go do something.  But of course he went to work so the conversation started here…

Me: Well I hope you have a good day anyway and it goes by quickly.  I love you.  Happy 9 Months 🙂
Randy: Thank you and I have isolated myself in the moulding aisle.  and love you too and happy 9 months.

So yeah yesterday was 9 months that we’ve been "official".  Apparently the 26th of October was when we first started talking and like the 30th is when we first met in person (the GameStop thing), but he officially asked me to be his GF on November 11th.  Then a couple hours later he texts me again…

Randy: Part of me doesn’t even want to try for the garden spot
Steph: Hmm.  Well it is entirely up to you my love.  I know how trying and mentally exhausting all of this has been on you.
Randy: We shall see what happens.
Steph: Yeah.  I don’t want you to completely get burnt out so just do whatever you think is right for you.
Randy: Yeah, gonna fill out that app for Hobby Lobby.  And I just nabbed a Santerio (Santonio) Holmes
Steph: Nice on the Holmes and yeah putting in that app will be good too.

Then when he got home and we brought the laundry and everything up, or actually I think it was when we were leaving again he mentioned something about the position and said that one of the guys told him that he has to just go into the interviews like the people Interviewing him have Never worked with him or don’t work for Home Depot.  So yeah.  He was reallllly upset because the last time he had an interview I guess he went into a lot of detail about stuff…and this time I guess he didn’t so.  blah stupid people.

Anyway so he was also saying that he had asked for some leadership blueprints or whatever, but he explained to me what they were and I still forgot exactly.  But I reiterated the fact that he’s the only one that knows what he’s wanting right now.  And he said I know what I want…and I stopped him and was like, I know that, but I’m talking about what you want as far as what your state of mind is right now.  And he was just like, yeah….

So anyway, I think after that I think he was ok.  I know he’s stressing out and I try not to bring much more stress to the table.  It’s kinda hard but I try.  Then this afternoon, he had to go all the way across town to make his truck payment, which we tried to do on Friday after we did a few other things.  We did end up going to see that apartment.  I know in my last entry I said I thought that wasn’t going to happen.  But he got home around 4…and we went over there.  They didn’t have any of the apartments to show.  He was getting a little upset and I don’t know if he realizes it but when he gets like that he gets a very rude tone in his voice.  

They were unable to show us the units because the people had just moved out of one and they hadn’t cleaned it.  and he was like that doesn’t bother me and the lady was like i understand that but we aren’t allowed to show them if they’re not "ready".  Well he was like That Sucks…in an annoyed tone and I was like…that’s understandable.  So she was like you guys can come back next week?  And I could tell he was like ugh!!  So I said that sounds good we’ll call ahead to see if you have any to show before we come out.  

So we walked out of the office and he was mumbling and grumbling about it and I was like, I can understand why they don’t show them, I don’t want to walk into someone elses mess.  And he was like what is it?  the 9th?  They’ve had a week to clean it up and I said who knows if they moved out on the 1st????  Finally he was just like yeah I guess.  Annnywho, so we went to try to make his truck payment and they were closed but he thought they had a drop box because they did at the other place, but they just moved so they didn’t have it.  So he was just like, i’ll have to do it on Monday before work.

He had to work at 1 today so he left around 11:30 and did that, came back and I had made him some sandwiches.  He was like "i’m gonna go do my truck payment, you can make me something for lunch in the meantime" and I was like uhmmm what do you want?  lol.  so yeah made him those sandwiches and packed up his lunch, then he stopped by on his way to work for it.  

I had tried to evolve my Sabertooth Tiger in Jurassic Park and it took FOREVER and soooo much coins and a couple bucks, so I text him and then this conversation happened…

Steph: Ohhh my god, it just gost me over 1,000,000,000 and 4 Dino Bucks to evolve my Sabertooth Tiger!!!! >_<
Randy: Million you mean?
Steph: Yes too many 000’s.
Randy: I figured.
Randy: Yeah all three people that I can play in the events are worth over 10k in points.  just gonna wait til it cycles through.  
Steph: Ouch
Randy: Yeah….Wanna move to NY, lol….
Randy: Jk
Steph: NY?
Randy: Yeah
Steph: Where did that come from?  Or just random? lol I feel like I missed something….
Randy: Just random….
Steph: haha OK.  Hmm well we have a month and a half to pack up and find a place in NY…I think it’s doable lmao
Randy: Seriously?  You’d do it?
Steph: I dunno…maybe.  I am getting kinda bored with AZ.  Tucson I mean.  It’s a possibility.
Randy: I’m in some of those kinda funks…I just get the urge to just relocate somewhere….but most of the time I don’t have the resources to do so…
Steph: Yeah.  That’s the main problem here…
Randy: Yup might just have to wait til next here.
Steph: Yeah.
Randy: OoO well
Steph: We will just have to wait and see what happens with everything I guess….

Soooo yeah that was…interesting.  We’ll more than likely have to wait until the end of next year before we try to do anything like that, but it is a possibility.  I said that I wasn’t here in Tucson permanently.  But I just didn’t know where I was gonna go next.  Then all of this crap happened and I wasn’t able to do ANYTHING, but now that we have kind of a plan and know that we’re both on board to do something like that, then I think this next year is the year to make it happen.

Hmm…yup.  I don’t have anything else to say, but I’m gonna leave you with some pics….most of you have already seen these on my Facebook.  if you’re not on my FB, feel free to click the link and add me.  Just let me know you’re from here, cuz I get some weird friend requests sometimes and generally don’t accept it.  hah.  anyway…enjoy.

 



 

 

 

 

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