Been thinking a lot about bachelor parties…

You guessed it, guys! I’m COMPLETELY OPPOSED to my boyfriend seeing another woman naked, much less having some nasty ass stripper grind on him for G-d knows how long. I’m fucking petrified that his best friend Dan will be named "Best Man" instead of his friend Jose, because Dan is so much wilder than Jose is. Dan doesn’t give a shit about stripFpers (or my feelings, for that matter), and I know Jose would respect my wishes about Amir not having a stripper at his bachelor party.

I trust Amir, but some SHADY shit goes on at bachelor parties…. and I know that Amir would be drinking. Sorry, but booze and slutty women don’t mix when you’re trying to stay faithful to your future wife.

 

For those of you who are married, did your husband have strippers or go to a strip club?

And for those of you who aren’t married, would you feel comfortable with other women getting naked in front of your boyfriend?

 

It’s not just the physical act of stripping that I have a problem with. It’s the fact that the only reason to go to a strip club or have a stripper is to be turned on by someone that isn’t your significant other. And if you lust after another woman in your heart, you’ve already committed adultery with her. You’ve imagined having sex with her (or you WANT to because who gets an erection for someone if they DON’T want to have sex with them?)….

 

I don’t feel I should "just accept" that he would want to go to a strip club or have a stripper. Is it MY fault that society has gone to UTTER SHIT? Is it MY fault that women are made to feel bad about not wanting their men to lust after other women because its so prevalent now? Seriously, the degradation of society is starting to really fucking piss me off. Maybe it’s always been like this and I just never noticed it before. I hate it. I don’t watch TV, I don’t read beauty magazines. Everything, EVERYTHING is so overly sexualized it’s ridiculous.

Why should I accept Amir lusting after another woman? I won’t. And I’ll just be gone if he can’t respect my wishes on this. I would never, ever think it’s okay to watch another man strip and lust after him.

 

Would I let a naked woman come to my house, strip down and grind on Amir in my HOUSE? Uhm, NO. You know what the difference between a stripper coming to my house and doing it in a club is? The fucking building, that’s what. Doesn’t seem like a big enough difference to me to justify the action.

 

It’s women like this that break up families, that ruin lives and marriages. . . and we, as a society, let it happen. No one has any morals anymore. No one cares that it is degrading to women, exploitative. I so would have been one of those bra-burning feminists in the womens’ rights era. Society has taken so many steps backwards as far as feminism goes it’s ridiculous. Each time a woman takes off her clothes for money we go back in time to when women were nothing but possessions or objects to be looked upon.

Really think about that, guys… an OBJECT. A THING. Not a person. She doesn’t have a name, she doesn’t have hopes and dreams. She is reduced to an *object* of lust. It’s so despicable it’s beyond words… It literally makes me sick.

 

 

I swear to fucking G-d guys…… I’m so not even kidding about this. Stripper=me GONE. Not fucking joking at all. If he doesn’t respect my feelings enough to NOT look at other women naked, I’m better off.

 

Of course, I don’t know what I’m so fucking worried about right now. He hasn’t even proposed to me. I mean, he’s going to France without me for fuck’s sake. Why on EARTH would I think that he would want to marry me? He travels to Europe without his girlfriend of 3 years.

 

and that’s all I have to say, really.  

 

Wooooooooowwwww, that was a GOOD rant. LOL 

 

I’m so glad I can bitch this out on OD and not have to bitch to him about it.     xD