What to do…

 I have a dilemma. Mama D’s husband, who I mentioned is a huge creep, is a registered sex offender. Since Denise’s passing, he has spent ridiculous amounts of money on stupid things [like a $3000 point of sale system, when we had one that worked perfectly fine,]  he keeps hitting on everyone that works or worked at the salon, and has hired a girl who D disliked immensely and swore would never work there. Ever. Among other things. Since he is a registered sex offender, he has to list a lot of things on the registry. Many of the things listed on there are either old information or incorrect. For instance, he owns two businesses that aren’t listed, he owns a car that isn’t listed, and he hasn’t been at the job that’s listed in like two years. I have wrestled with the idea of reporting him for months. I don’t want to do that to Denise. It seems silly because she isn’t here anymore, but I feel like she’d be disappointed in me. I also don’t want it to be my fault that her salon [which was her baby,] goes under. I reported him. But I feel sort of like a douche. I don’t know. The state troopers keep calling me and asking me questions and asking me if I’d be willing to testify and stuff. This is sort of a big deal I guess. I think I did the right thing… But why do I feel like such an asshole?

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Think about what COULD have happened if you kept silent. Could this have turned into something worse? Could he have made a bad decision down the line because nobody stopped this fraud? Better you feel kind of like a jerk than responsible for a tragedy…

October 13, 2012

Yeah, but it doesn’t say anything except aggravated sexual assault on his page, and I know a guy who is in prison or 8-18yrs because of some bs and has to register with megan’s law when he gets out. So I since I don’t know the whole story I wonder what happened with him. IDK. It wasn’t something I could just come out and ask D.