12/28/2012

my last entry tells of what happened, this is an update to that, but, first, id like to say i had the best Christmas, we cooked the dinner here and took it over to my sister’s house, where we got to spend the day with her, my brother, my niece and a friend, of course taylor was there, and damon visited then Maya, the best day..:)
ok, now for my update, as of yesterday i am legally my nieces guardian, at least for 7 months, shes 17, my older sister gave up on her, im thinking because the money ran out and whatever she spent on Tay had to come out of her pocket, we had to go over to an emergency meeting i guess it was the 18th, my 2 sisters’ were there and other people , familys who have the other kids’, tay said she wanted to go with me, of course.:) it was a long meeting, 21/2 hours, but, in the end i got her, we pickerd her up from school the next day! at the meeting my older sister walked in with an attitude, she blamed everyone else i suppose, shes a hard person to understand, sometimes i feel sorry for her, we dont get along, never did, which is fine with me…
Taylor takes alot of medication, she ADD among other things, my sister insisted that i go to the doctor she took her too, i refuse and still do, the only reason she took her to that doctor was because her daughter works there, but, its out of the way for me, so we called the pharmacy here and they said the meds she takes for ADD we have to go over to the doctor who gave them to her and get some kind of paper, figures!!!! now, i have to go to her old school, sign her out of there and get her into the school in this district, we couldnt do that because my sister insisted she had to work and the next day off she had was the 27 (yestrday), we had to have papers notorized giving me custody of my niece, it only took a minute to have these papers done, she couldnt do this on her lunch break? i would have had my niece allready enrolled in this, so i have to go back to the old school on january 2nd, no one told me anything at all, they just gave me my niece, i had no ideas of doctors or anything….
I have to get her to a gynecologist to get her on birth control, she is sexually active, there was a baby scare, and all my older sister said was "if she gets pregnant she is out of my house", my sister is a die hard catholic, and i know we dont believe in birth control, but, i wont let her ruin her future like that, so i made the decision to get her on it ASAP, her mom agrees..
There is a boy tay is madly in love with, which drives me nuts, he lives in a home that is right next door to where she was, shes only known him for 3 weeks, and she is always wanting to go visit him, i dont know if CYS would approve or not a few times i took her to see him, but with the way gas is and no money we explained to her this wont be happeneing all the time..
I made the mistake of telling her we would treat her as an adult and that she could make her own decisions, now she thinks she is an adult, we had a talk about it, i told her no not yet, on july 19 is when she is legally and adult and i told her it wasnt easy being one, she didnt have freedom when she stayed at my sisters house, im trying to give her some, but its not easy, shes a troubled kid and i have to keep that in mind..
Yesterday my older sister gave my niece a christmas gift, i knew what it was, so did my older sister, it was a book, "50 shades of gray" i had no idea what it was, well, my younger sister explained the book to me, my eyes abut popped out of my head! ther is no damn way she is keeping that book!!! my sister doesnt want her to have, my brother or michael, who gives a 17 year old "kid" THAT kind of book?!?!?!?!?! i know why she did it, because id look like the bad guy when i told tay no she couldnt keep the book, i am furious!!! tay said she was keeping the book, so, my brother and sister took the book and hid it, hey she can have it in 7 months, am i wrong here/ how many mothers let ther 17 year old daughters read that book? id like to know..
we also got a driving book for tay to study to drive, tina (my older sister) refused her that too, and tay asked if she could get a job, so i got her a job application from the little store up near us, man, i hope they call!!!
so, so far so good, tay is with her mom now, she stayed at her house lastnight, i told her to call when she wants to come "home" thats another thing tina never ever let tay be with holly, so i changed all that, she sees her mom when she wants and her brothers and sister, the people who have the other kids said we could see them at any time.;)
oh, tay has been getting on the computer, she was on the other day at 6 in the morning, michael and i were both up and the computer is right here, we can see what shes doing, but, my sister had a fit cause tay was on facebook at 6 in the morning, so i explained to tays mom that we were there! then i thought, why am i explaining this? i am her legal guardian, i dont have to explain to tina what i do with tay, she threw her away like a piece of trash!

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