08/17/2012
M’s niece came back into town the day before yesterday, she’s staying here with us, (this used to be her home, then she sold it to her mother, so she stays here whenever shes in Pa), anyway, her, her daughter and her daughter’s boyfriend stayed here like last month, and now she is back, she left her 15 year old daughter in Missouri (crazy? stupid? YEP!) she came up looking for a job, she cuts hair and went yesterday for an interview, she got the job..
We are going nuts! i feel like my world has been invaded, im a private person and am used to it being just m and myself, she doesnt know how long she is staying, she could leave tomorrow or the rumor is until Christmas or 6 months, fortunately we have the R.V and have been sleeping there (great AC), so, she stays with her 2 dogs in the house, or she runs, yesterday we took care of the dogs’, she left at around 11 and didnt come back all day, and i didnt want the dogs’ going to the bathroom in here, i dont mind watching the dogs, they are pretty small and well trained, but, when we go somewhere and she leaves, who is going to be here to take care of them???? its just a nightmare right now, and i want to run away, we didnt think she would actually come back here!!!
everyone is pretty upset about her leaving her daughter in Missouri and no one likes her anyway (even her parents dont like her), i just cannot imagine leaving your children in another state while your running around looking for a job and its only like 10 bucks an hour, hey, i know im not perfect, ive done alot of stupid things in my life, but, i know better than to leave my kid in another state!!! i could never, ever do that, what is she thinking?!?!?!?!? and she thinks its the right thing to do??? if your going to come to PA then bring your freaking daughter with you or dont come!!!
I want out of here sooo bad, we have no money to get an apartment or anything, and M told his sister that we would need notice when we are to leave, we just can get a one day notice, m is supposed to get his ssi in december then we are outta here!!! i just cannot take this, if your moving back, fine, its not my house, but you arent going to live here while we are paying the bills ect, sorry thats not the way it works!!
M’s niece has all kinds of plans, she wants the barn to be turned into a studio apartment, and she wants us to start on it NOW, well, excuse me, who died and made YOU boss? and her mother allready told us that the niece is not in charge, m’s sister is, this niece is just to damn bossy for her own good, she expects people to jump whenever she says..
theres just not enough room here for all 3 of us, we are having trouble with shower time allready, the hot water tank isnt that big, and i sorry, i NEED my showers’ imediately! i work out on my treadmill for and hour and 40 minutes (just in the mornings) by the time im done i am soaked with sweat! i waited for as long as i could this morning then i took it upon myself to take a shower, i dont know if she wanted in the bathroom or not, she came down when i was done and said " is the shower free"? m said yes and is still waiting, even now to take a shower, he will NEVER get in there!!! i even did laundry this morning, it had to be done, and i refuse to do someone elses laundry…
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