Tokens of Love

Just Got back from our cabin in the woods I’ve been off playing in the river, roasting marshmallows, burning dead branches, making strawberry waffles, building fires in the wood stove, morning walk with the dogs at dawn, watching netflix, playing Old Maid, War, decorating Sami’s loft, listening to the birds, exploring new places, drinking peculated coffee made from the wood stove, going potty in the little portable, Swiss Miss hot chocolate with miniature marshmallows, Trying to ride the QUAD-scared shitless, SAMI is a pro quad rider- She is 6 years old! Trying to cross the Yakima river-foot to rock-foot-to-rock without getting wet–ya right!!!Grabbing onto branches to save! me from getting wet. Maybe one of these days I will learn. Campfire, it maybe our last because of a no burn ban that starts on monday, found my lost book the scary campfire ghost story book, thinking that Sami hid it from me, snuggles with BB in our cozy log styled feather bed, I sleep sooo well because it is the darkest of dark outside at night and quiet too.

My favorite room in the cabin is the living room and you will always find me on the couch front row center, enjoying the fires in which I have created. I have it down to a science after all I have been in the fire building business since the construction of the cabin. Girl Scout Rule #1 Always, I mean ALWAYS place the lighter and a flash light near the wood stove. Saves the trouble of having to search for these items in a cold, dark cabin. Rule #2 Have your supplies ready to go: Fire starter stix, cedar wood shavings, kindling, a stack of dry season wood. Rule #3 Start small using the fire starter tablet, adding cedar shavings, kindling, cedar, hemlock,and fir logs building up in a criss cross fashion ending with the grand finale with the Madrona log which happens to be the hottest burning wood in the northwest. These Madrona logs are brought from home and we use these logs for fire starting and at bedtime to keep the fire going. Rule #4 Oxygen, fires like to breath don’t pack too tightly, #4 Patience, every fire is different no two fire are alike this is the beauty of fires

Thinking back to why I appreciate fires so much

On my fathers death bed

after a Native American singing and drumming ritual,

before I unplugged the life support

one of the drummers, my dad’s closest friend, told me in so many words that I will feel my father’s spirit within the fire

“You must always respect fire.

Feed the fire with a token of love in honor of your father.

Your father is within the fire”.

Log in to write a note
May 15, 2005

Ilove the thought of your father’s spirit being in the fire……. sending you warmth from beyond the grave. Thanks for sharing this.

May 15, 2005

You’ve had some wonderful people shaping your experiences. Lucky you to be a part of so many people’s lives that way.

May 15, 2005

wow===what he said about your father and the fire.

This is just SO cool! You have a fantastic life girl! Wow, And, about your father? Way Cool! Warm sugar hugs, M

May 15, 2005

What, no smores? 😛 I love reading about camping but I don’t enjoy doing it myself….now if I had Netflix I could deal! I really like that pic of you, and I really like what the Native American friend said about your Dad’s spirit.

May 15, 2005

when the time comes, you will be in the fire then, too. unless, of course, your spirit finds the water.

My nickname as as kid/young adult was pyro – famous for my fires, especially out-doors. You have a great skill!

May 16, 2005

Your cabin sounds wonderful…I love building fires..and I agree that it is best to have everything ready to go before you strike the match…I also like the image of your father’s spirit in the fire…

May 16, 2005

I love the idea of your father’s spirit in the fire….I have always loved fires – maybe its spirits I am feeling…

May 16, 2005

I too love fire, and if I ever realize my dream of having a cabin in the woods or at the ocean, it will most definitely have a fireplace or wood burning stove. How spiritual and uplifting it must have been to be able to share your father’s fire spirit upon his passing. I will always remember you in my prayer smoke each evening and thank the spirits to have a friend like you.

May 16, 2005

What a wonderful way to spend some time. I am still the worst fire maker / starter. Alot like fried chicken – can’t make that either *g*

May 16, 2005

I love the idea of the spirit in the fire. I’m a tiny bit Cherokee and I may have heard of that when I was young. It is a comfort now.

May 16, 2005

God, that’s a cute picture.

New here, don’t mind my saying hi. Sounds like a really great time at your cabin. I’m jealous. I’m useless with fires. Something I really need to work on. I’ll have to take your tips to heart.

The rules of fire. Seems more than it is….Something that could apply to more than just fire, perhaps. Thank you for sharing the story of your father here.

May 19, 2005

my favorite place in the world is a cabin in maine… a big open hearth rock fireplace. watching my boys warm their toes as the rock back and forth..

May 19, 2005

You’re so beautiful. What a peaceful relaxing time. I could smell the fire and hot chocolate as I was reading the entry. Dreamy…………

May 24, 2005

I miss camping… sigh…