Whoever said: “Is it better to have loved and lost” …

Whoever said “Is it better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all?”

I get where the person is coming from I guess that it’s better to experience love and loose it than never to experience it at all in your life.

Sorry I can’t agree with that at this point and time. I recently lost a guy that I loved and I’m telling you I would of rather not have love at all or even love again at this point (even though there was secrets in the end, me being one of them). Yes I have lost family members but I weren’t close to them maybe it’s because this is the first lost of someone I was actually close to, loved, and talked to daily; but his death hit me hard and it hurt like hell.