why??

the guy from last year and i haven’t really talked at all since he went and got a girlfriend and moved in with her.  they moved in together within weeks of getting together.  last week (i think, or maybe 2 weeks ago) i had taken a day off and when i was puttering around the house and signed on facebook, i saw that he was now fb friends w/ his girlfriend.  i thought huh?  they had been fb friends before so i can only assume they got in a fight and unfriended each other. or there was a glitch, but i’ve never seen a glitch like that before.  and his life revolves around fb so i’m pretty sure he unfriended her, then refriended her when they made up.  whatever. 

anywho, i will text him once in a blue moon, usually when something that reminds me of him happens.  nothing serious, mostly funny stuff.  but, he hasn’t made first contact in…forever.  even when he didn’t have a gf, i was always the one to reach out to him.  but, he would always like my stuff or comment on stuff on fb.  he hasn’t done that in forever either.  to the point where i thought he blocked me.  but, apparently he didn’t.  he liked some link i posted a few days ago and then today, i get home from the halloween party and he started a game of words with friends with me.  weird, cause he doesn’t play fb games and there he is making contact again.  i dunno whats going on.  just when i’m convincing myself to get him off my mind and put every last ounce of energy into being with kevin, he is slowly sliding back into my life.  he is a good guy, and i would never want to marry him or have kids with him, so i don’t want to lose him, but i just want to not think of him or fb stalk him lol.  so the fact that he is making contact is kinda moving backwards. 

i guess we’ll see what happens.  life is so weird.  but, everything happens for a reason.