nojomo #3

so yesterday i was off work for election day.  i took a "pg" rated picture and sent it to the new guy.  he wrote back and said "nice, i like those" and i said lol.  he texted like 15 minutes later and said "id like to see them again soon" so i said well hurry up and get back here!  he then informed me that he would be back in town that night if i wanted him.  i said, sure come on over.  so he came over last night and we had some wine, watched a movie and had a little sex 🙂  he spent the night and woke up stuffy.  he thinks he is allergic to down which sucks cause i LOVE my down comforter.  🙁  i was feeling good that he came over right after he got back to town.  he wanted to see me, he didn’t even go home first.  he knew i had to work the next day (today) and it wouldn’t be a wild night and he still came over.  it could have been the promise of sex, of course.  but, i like to think its cause he wanted to see me.

then i found out today that he is spending the night up in pa at his "friend’s" house.  the friend that watched his dog.  i’m still suspicious and there are things on facebook that make me suspicious but i need to keep in mind that we are not together, we are both still single.  and, if he didn’t like me, he wouldn’t be talking to me, or wanting to come over.  and, he needs to be a fling (in my mind at least) until we have that bold conversation about marriage and kids. 

no matter what, i’m keeping my mind and my eyes open in case someone else comes along.  🙂

oh!  and in the BEST news, my friend amanda is coming back into town for the weekend!  she will be here in 24 hours!!!!!!!!!!  i’m soooooo excited!!!!  i can’t wait to have her back for a few days.  it will be so nice to hang out and catch up with her again!