Sometimes…
I wish I could turn this horny ass bf of mines sex drive down a few notches. He’s overly obsessed and it’s to where most of the texts are sex related anymore. I mean what about asking how I am, how my day is going, I love you, anything that says im thinking of you and not just your body. And for the love of all that is holy why the F*** do I need pics. I’m beginning to wonder if that’s all I’ll get out of this relationship. I mean I love sex, and he’s great at it, but he wants it way too often.
I mean what does he do whenever I’m at work, other than text me stuff I already know he wants. It’s literally every f*****g day more than once a day. I don’t mean to complain, but I want more than just great sex. I want love, commitment, faithfulness, loyalty, respect and consideration. I don’t think that’s too much to ask! I want to be able to talk and do things and not have to worry about having to perform. I want romance, to spend time doing things together. We are gonna have to talk soon. I’m not the most happiest person right now. Work and personal life and kicking my ass!!
we say I love you everyday but it’s just the majority of the texts I get from him are about sex. I’d like some regular chit chat, more often. If I feel loved, I give more. I can’t if I feel objectified
Sometimes…. 😶
@caionalves25 yeah sometimes. Meaning not all the time just toning it down so I’m not so put off by the frequency of it.
@sweet-n-simple Yeah! 🙂
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I agree you deserve depth and good communication and value beyond the bedroom.
I will say that love, commitment, faithfulness, loyalty, respect and consideration are INCREDIBLY HUGE things to ask for of anyone, including YOU. Be particular. Life is short.
@e3 how on earth is that too much to ask? Wouldn’t you want to be with someone who you can trust? Especially with your heart. Would you be ok with your SO talking to other folks in a manner where they feel they have to hide it from you cause they know it’s wrong. Wouldn’t you want someone to respect you enough to not disrespect you by cheating or entertaining other women/men the way they should with you? And what’s wrong with commitment? If they have chosen to, shouldn’t be a problem.
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