Hug A Teacher

When I started teaching (3 years ago) I thought I was "seasoned" even though I was a new teacher.  My parents were both teachers.  Let me restate – my parents were wonderful caring and demanding teachers.  I have heard this many times over the years from people they have taught.  And I, as the child of two such people, had already heard all the stories and seen all the good, bad and ugly. 

What I soon found out was how wrong I was.  Teachers are an amazing group of people.  Are they all wonderful?  No.  But considered as a group – wow.  My coworkers continue to knock my socks off every day.  They’re not saints and they’re not perfect…but they give their all for their students.  Guess what – it’s not about the money, that’s for dang sure! 

Sometimes the job weighs on us all.  We are underpaid.  We work an incredible number of hours.  (I work harder and am more tired than I ever was in the corporate world – even on the jobs where I routinely worked 50-60 hours per week.)  We are often not respected by parents, students, administration and government (can anybody say Dubya and his brother Jeb?)  and it always seems that everyone wants "more" from us. 

And yet – with all that negative being said – there are no rewards anywhere in the world to match it.  I received this little piece in an e-mail from a friend and I really want to share it with you….

"Where are the heroes of today?" a radio talk show host thundered.

He blames society’s shortcomings on education. Too many people are looking for heroes in all the wrong places. Movie stars and rock musicians, athletes, and models aren’t heroes; they’re celebrities. Heroes abound in public schools, a fact that doesn’t make the news. There is no precedent for the level of violence, drugs, broken homes, child abuse, and crime in today’s America. Education didn’t create these problems but deals with them every day.

 You want heroes?

 Consider Dave Sanders, the schoolteacher shot to death while trying to shield his students from two youths on a shooting rampage at Columbine High School in Littleton, Colorado. Sanders gave his life, along with 12 students, and other less heralded heroes survived the Colorado blood bath.

 You want heroes?

Jane Smith, a Fayetteville, NC teacher, was moved by the plight of one of her students, a boy dying for want of a kidney transplant. So this woman told the family of a 14 year old boy that she would give him one of her kidneys. And she did. When they subsequently appeared together hugging on the Today Show, even Katie Couric was near tears.

 You want heroes?

Doris Dillon dreamed all her life of being a teacher. She not only made it, she was one of those wondrous teachers who could bring the best out of every single child. One of her fellow teachers in San Jose, Calif said, "She could teach a rock to read."

Suddenly she was stricken with Lou Gehrig’s Disease which is always fatal, usually within five years. She asked to stay on job … and did. When her voice was affected she communicated by computer. Did she go home? Absolutely not! She is running two elementary school libraries! When the disease was diagnosed, she wrote the staff and all the families that she had one last lesson to teach …. that dying is part of living. Her colleagues named her Teacher of the Year.

 You want heroes?

 Bob House, a teacher in Gay, Georgia, tried out for Who wants to be a Millionaire. After he won the million dollars,

a network film crew wanted to follow up to see how it had impacted his life. New cars? Big new house? Instead, they found both Bob House and his wife still teaching. They explained that it was what they had always wanted to do with their lives and that would not change. The community was both stunned and gratified.

 You want heroes?

 Last year the average school teacher spent $468 of their own money for student necessities .. (I can PERSONALLY attest to this!) workbooks, pencils .. supplies kids had to have but could not afford. That’s a lot of money from the pockets of the most poorly paid teachers in the industrial world.

 Schools don’t teach values?

The critics are dead wrong. Public education provides more Sunday School teachers than any other profession.. The average teacher works more hours in nine months than the average 40-hour employee does in a year.

 You want heroes?

 For millions of kids, the hug they get from a teacher is the only hug they will get that day because the nation is living through the worst parenting in history. An Argyle, Texas kindergarten teacher hugs her little 5 and 6 year-olds so much that both the boys and the girls run up and hug her when they see her in the hall, at the football games, or in the malls years later.  (again – a personal note – I already have students that run up to me in the mall or any place else I see them in public for a hug…)

A Michigan principal moved me to tears with the story of her attempt to rescue a badly abused little boy who doted on a stuffed animal on her desk .. one that said "I love you!" He said he’d never been told that at home. This is a constant in today’s society .. two million unwanted, unloved, abused children in the public schools, the only institution that takes them all in.

 You want heroes?

 Visit any special education class and watch the miracle of personal interaction, a job so difficult that fellow teachers are awed by the dedication they witness. There is a sentence from an unnamed source which says: "We have been so eager to give our children what we didn’t have that we have neglected to give them what we did."

What is it that our kids really need?

What do they really want?

Math, science, history and social studies are important, but children need love, confidence, encouragement, someone to talk to, someone to listen, standards to live by. Teachers provide upright examples, the faith and assurance of responsible people.

 You want heroes?

Then go down to your local school and see our real live heroes . the ones changing lives for the better each and every day!

 Footnote:  This is not a thinly disguised ploy for complements for me….this is truth.  Remember your teachers and the teachers your children have/had.  There were some good ones that stand out in your mind, weren’t there?  Then thank them, write them a note, remember them in your prayers.  Nobody can tell me that there aren’t angels right here on earth each and every day.

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