wtf?

I’m so frustrated. Mike hasn’t called…and I’m beginning to think he isn’t going to. Which, frankly, has me baffled. Here’s why:

Item 1: On Sunday night, he came right out and said he was having a good time.
Item 2: Again on Sunday night, he asked if he could see me again some time this week.
Item 3: Then he asked me to friend him on Facebook.
Item 4: He kissed me goodbye.
Item 5: He accepted my friend request on Facebook and then immediately wrote on my wall.
Item 6: I returned the comment by writing on his wall, and he then proceeded to comment on two different status messages of mine on two different days this week.
 
Am I missing something?
 
The only thought that comes to mind right about now is “WHAT THE FUCK?!” 
 
If you don’t want to see me, why waste your time continuing the acquaintance? See my point?
 
On a less frustrating note, I’m going to Pittsburgh this weekend to see Amy. Thank God. I need a vacation, even if it is just a mini one. I’m heading there Friday morning and coming home Sunday afternoon. I’m excited to see her…and excited that I get to see her again in August for my sister’s going away party.
 
Next weekend is Pip’s wedding. He invited me with a guest, but because I am, as suspected, completely invisible, I had to RSVP alone. So I will spend the day third-wheeling it with Kristina and her boyfriend Dan. I love Dan, but they tend to get all kissy and touchy when they’re together and it makes me gag. I’m not generally like that in front of other people…I’ll kiss someone, but I won’t make out for 30 seconds while someone is sitting on the couch across from me. Ugh. So, needless to say, I’m not really looking forward to this wedding, despite how thrilled I am for Pip.
 
I lost 5 pounds. Yay! 15 more to go…and then maybe some more after that. We’ll see how I feel when I get that low. 
 
And now I’ve lost the energy to write anything else. Not that anything else is even going on anyway. Hah!

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July 8, 2009

Random noter: Don’t worry, just breathe. It sounds like he’s interested, but maybe there’s an extenuating circumstance. And, frankly, if he doesn’t call – you deserve better. 🙂 Best of luck!

another random: I hope mike will call you. Give him some time, men are not very precise with calls or text messages. Very nice you have a mini vacation, hope u will have fun and some time to chill 😉

Did he give you his number or did you just give him yours? Why not call him tomorrow (not tonight) just to say ‘hi, how are you doing?’ Nothing more. Don’t push any more than that. Take it from there.

July 8, 2009

I’m not gonna repeat the things I said, cause I think u got it, and also because I totally get your frustrated feeling. There are 2 possibilities here, that I can think of, from the top of my head: 1. us women are way too anxious and it’s probably just how he does things, and he does like u… or… 2. he just wants to date numerous women, that’s why he signed up? I hope it’s more like #1! 🙂