Quick Entry

Just a quick entry……I am writing this from the Childrens Hospital at Robert Wood Johnson Hopsitl. My 17 yr old son was involved in a serious car accident on Saturday and I have been spending my days and nights at the hospital. He is going in to have "plastic surgery" sometime today. His eye socket was fractured (most of the bones in the eye socket), his cheekbone was fractured, his nose was broken and he is covered with deep gashes and has stitches on his lip and inside his upper lip. The truck hit a utility pole and flipped over. He wasn’t speeding, we know this because he was following the owner of the farm and he was going about 40 mph. Something (don’t really know what) spooked him and you can see where he verred away from the road and then right before the pol;e he turned the wheel to avoid the pole,, otherwise he would have hit it head on. Right now the other two kids who were in the truck are also in the hospital, one is going home tomorrow…the other is in more seious condition with just about every bone in his face broken as well as an arm. There was still blood on his brain, but that has begun to clot which is good, right now they are not sure if he will be blind in one eye…it’s a wait and see staus right now.

Will update when

 

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Michael went in to surgry last night. The doctors were hoping that his fractured eye socket and cheekbone would mend together on there own.  As he face swelling went down we all noticed that there a portion of his eye socket and cheekbone had a concave effect. They did more CAT scans and saw that the impact has caused his eye socket to shift towards his nose and in. SO…my 17 yr old son had to have plastic surgery to repair his eye socket, cheekbone and broken nose. Last night was pure hell. This is my child who has a very high threshold for pain and he was in agony. It was so hard to see and hear him yell. Hubby is going in to work for a half day then coming to take me home to get some slepp. I have maybe had 2 or 3 hours sleep since last Sat.

I don’t have any more info about the other kids as I haven’t seen the parents since yesterday. BUt last I heard form my plder son who talked to the one child parents last night….he may be going home some time today. You know what I now hate that expression……SOME TIME TODAY…it means nothing but more pain for a while to the kids.  But they are all out of any danger. We just need to pray that the child who is hurt the most will not lose his eyesight. I pray to God, he doesn’t. 

ANd all your prayers on that would  be greatly appreciated.

 

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July 19, 2005

Random Noter: I hope your son pulls through! I will pray for him.

July 19, 2005

OMG, I am so sorry to hear this!!! I am praying for your son, your family, and the other boys that were hurt. If you find time please keep us all updated on the condition of the kids. Many hugs….

July 19, 2005

I’m so sorry to hear about your son. I’ll pray you and your son, and the other injured.

July 22, 2005

I was checking to see if you had any more news. You, your son, your family, and the other kids and families are all in my prayers.

I’m praying and hoping. So sorry this happened. Wishing the best for your son and all of you. Hugs,

hope all is well. i just got back after 10 days away. Let me know how you and your son are doing!

good hearing from you. yes, it was my vegas/florida trip. right now I’m tired…lol….anyways I was glad to hear from you. It sounds like it will be a long recovery process, but over time I’m sure your son will pull thru and things will be back to “normal” soon enough. keep your thoughts positive. I’m always here for you to unload or yell at…lol

lol…yes, house passed inspection. yes, went on business. No play:(…lol…got back early today and went right to work. Shopping got the best of me and never did get the shirts. Wonder if this will be my lucky night!…lol…care to bet…lol

lol…very funny notes you left. And the answer is….drumroll, please…….No didnt get lucky..lol…I could think of plenty of things I would wager on, but dont know if you would pay up…lol..Hope you have a great day!

August 2, 2005

You haven’t updated in a while….I was wondering how your and his friends are doing. I hope all is well.

If anything DID happen in vegas i would let you know, but, alas, just pure work. So no story to tell….bummer. Which puts me in the state I am now (I’m guessing you know what that is)….maybe it is a good thing you didnt wager. Are you good at paying up?…hmmm. Enjoy your day of spoiling yourself. You deserve it. Just wondering, whose doing the pedicure?

Now do you think it’s fair you won’t tell me what you bet on? I think not…maybe a clue?

agree…lol…have a geat day

August 2, 2005

I’ll be looking for your update….enjoy your pedicure!!!

now what are you going to do all day alone in your bedroom?…lol

sorry about that…after rereading i figured out you werent locked in your bedroom….lol…duh! If you were it could have been fun…lol….and I have enjoyed your notes as well!!!…esp. your last few, if you know what I mean

so did that mean no pedicure?

can you at least tell me the color so i can get a visual…lol…i’m good at that…visuals at least. try not to use all the whip cream!

i dont know…you might get lucky before me….lol…btw, doesnt it fustrate you?….lol…I like your humor…far from”sick”…lol

almost forgot…remember….don’t spill any!

so how did the dacquiris turn out? no spillage I hope and you drank till the last drop!….lol…now that is sick humor!

makes sense?..yes, very understandable. BTW, nice choice of color. should go with the drinks you are making. Did you do that on purpose?…lol