I left him

Thats right i left my husband. Its horrible. idid not want to. But he decided to pick baby mikey up by theback of his neck. Yeap he picked him up by his neck. Mikey is fine, no damage done, but Ron my husband could of easily snaped his neck killing mikey or paralizing him. That all happened sunday night. So I called my parents, and we meet half way between hinesville and atlanta. My friend next door drove me to the half way mark and helped me pack. she didnt want me to drive for i was an emotional wreck, How can a man who claims to love his children pick one up by his neck to feed him his bottle. I still love him, but if he wants me back he needs anger management and parenting classes. I told him that he said fuck no to the anger management and said he will only enroll into parenting classes after I come home. Im not going bac till he takes them. Am I wrong for leaveing him?

Sir Gawain

June 27, 2007

to protect your kids? Hell no. Good for you- stand your ground on the classes, though.

Starry Eyed Jenny

You can’t second-guess yourself when it comes to the safety of you and your children. If your telling yourself it’s not safe to be there with him… then it’s not. Good for you for telling him to take the classes before you come back. Don’t step down. Be strong for your child. *hugs* Best of luck to you!!

Vivica Vicious

No, you are not in the least bit wrong for leaving him. Anger is nothing to mess with, and if he has done that to your baby– it is completely unacceptable. I wish you strength for your future. Stand tall. 🙂

RainbowGlitterWitch

your children are BABIES… you MUST make them safe first and always. believe me when i say your husband will NEVER change and you can’t make him no matter how much you love him. PLEASE do NOT go back.. it will not get better and last. *hugs you* really.. you can’t help him, only you and your sons matter.

*hugs you* i forgot to add you when i noted. sorry about that…now you are!

SweetTam

I think you did the right thing.You saw the signs before this incident and there is no excuse for your husband to be treating your babies like that.Both of those classes are a must before you set foot back in that house.

Tiburon's Rose

good for you, it sucks to have to do that, but I don’t see how you could have made any other choice…you can’t let someone hurt your baby, and I don’t think I’d ever take him back, but that’s just me, I would at the very least add seeing a shrink to my list of requirements