Turn of a half century

Yep, that’s me.  As of today I have officially crossed the better part of my life.  I has the great surprise of a 50th birthday party last night that will be a favorite memory from now on.  It was for sure the perfect ending to a tumultuious week.  But thats another story.

I was invited to dinner last night by my favorite dispatch coworker because she had to cancel out on another night a couple of weeks ago.  So we were going out to eat before I was to work midnites,  she was supposed to call me and let me know what time and where yesterday afternoon.  Well I got up and got ready to go and I didn’t hear from her.  So at about 7 she called and asked why I wasn’t at the restaurant, and I said because you didn’t tell me where we were eating.  So she said we were eating at the mexican restaurant in Trenton and she would go in and get us a table.  So I took off.

Ten minutes later when I arrived, she met me out front and walked me back ti where we were sitting.  As I turned the corner I looked up and saw one of my police officers in uniform and then everyone shouted "Surprise!"  I almost had a stroke.  Then they told me that they had made arrangements that I didn’t have to work last night, so let the party begin.  Needless to say, it was the best birthday ever.  To be surrounded by so many great friends and to feel so loved.  Wow.  As I sit and reflect on the day now, I am reminded how rich I am not in money and posessions, but in love and treasures of friends who go out of their way for me and to make my day special.

And for the first time in over 10 years, I was able to have dinner with my mom on my birthday.  We went to the Montgomery Inn for ribs.  And then she made a special desert for us when we got home.

How blessed I am to have had such a wonderful day.  The Lord has truly given me so many blessings and taken such good care of me throughout my life.  To have so much good just makes me want to be a better shepard for the Lord.  As the day winds down and tomorrow goes back to normal, I will remember that there is good in everything we experience, if we just look beyond the clouds.  I will have dinner with my oldest friend Mel tomorrow and we will celebrate out birthdays together, as hers was Tuesday and I still am older by two years.  But age is only a number and I will never be 50 in my mind.  So life is good.  No, it’s great!  Gods blessings to each and everyone of you, as you too are part of my wealth of love and caring friends.  Be well.

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March 7, 2011

What an awesome bunch of friends!! And for them to arrange that you didn’t have to work is the bestest. Happy Belated Birthday and 50 ain’t too bad. God Bless

March 7, 2011

LOVE this entry! Happy birthday, Soph! May the coming year bring nothing but good things to your life!

March 14, 2011

RYN: You always say the nicest things to me, Soph. Thank you. **HUGS** Your comment on peas made me smile. When my MIL passed away, my two SILs and I split up the household goods by taking everything in a room, putting it in the middle of the room and taking turns picking something out of the pile. At one point, I chose an old beat up wash basin. My SIL turned her nose up and said she couldn’t believe I was picking that old thing. Turns out she had to fill it with shelled peas before she could go out and play! One woman’s treasure is another woman’s bad memory, I suppose. 🙂

March 14, 2011

RYN2: I’ve started a blog at wordpress because the people I write for requested it. As things get published, I’ll post it there for those who want to buy/read/etc. Will let you know when the time comes.

March 15, 2011

RYN: After the last disaster of meeting someone from OD, Papa Blue asked me not to meet any more people. If you find you ARE coming anyway, let me know and I’ll see how he feels then, okay?