My Punishment
so the girl that’s my soul mate has a serious boy friend…. I honestly don’t know what to do, I mean it hurts me so bad I can barley handle it any more, she knows how I feel, but I guess I have to give up. I have to give up on the one thing in my life that I thought was right from the get go. I have to admit I really don’t even feel like pushing forward anymore, I guess I really should have a talk with her and just tell her that I can’t handle it anymore, I mean I can’t spend my life alone just be cause she’s not single, I guess that pretty much says she doesn’t want to be with me. I’ve never felt so right but been so wrong. I just don’t think I can handle it any longer.
Lament a week or two. Maybe even month. But please don’t dwell on this. The fact that she has someone else means that she isn’t your soul mates. Soul mates should have a mutual attraction. If you spend to much time chasing after some dream girl you’re going to miss the one in reality. You’re soul mate is still out there looking for you too. Plus I don’t believe there’s only ONE soulmate a lifetime
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RYN: they said they think he might be able to see shadows out of the bottoms of his one eye because of the way he puts his head sometimes, but yep, pretty much completely blind. Born that way…
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Sorry to hear about your heartbreak. 🙁 That does suck… but if there is anything I’ve ever learned in my life, its that the RIGHT one won’t be a fight. It will be easy and natural and nothing will be in your way. The “work” that they say relationships are… its really just about keeping the love alive… not taking each other for granted… but it has nothing to do with it being a struggle to be with that person.
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I know this will make me unpopular, but I disagree with the other comments. First of all yes she is in a relationship, and obviously that hurts you, but it doesn’t mean she doesn’t think about you (if what you said is mutual). It doesn’t mean she is in a spectacular relationship and doesn’t question everything her bf does. However, it does mean that at the moment she can’t see herself breaking it
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off etc. She may be thinking it but doesn’t want to be the guilty party that leads to it. With that being said should you stop your life for her? NO. Grieve etc and start dating. This will either allow 3 things to develop: She’ll realize she wants you, You both will realize this, or you’ll meet someone new and totally awesome. I’ve also learned some things in this life and that is you can be right
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but in the wrong time period. You my friend might be exactly there. There is no way to know exactly how she feels or what she things. It may be that as I said she is torn. Go on though and focus on you, and if you really feel she is the one, you’ll meet up down the road. But it could be that she isn’t and you’ve just been looking at her thru rose colored glasses. Either way hope things get better!
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