Question for all the men on OD

I try all the time with him and i dont know if I can anymore. i was reading back to the beginning of my dairy, about how happy we were and how carefree, and then all that shit started.

The shit just never seems to end. I honestly can’t remember the last time he ‘fucked’ me. And I am sorry for saying it like that, but what we do is more so like he HAS to have sex with me, and not fuck me… or even make love to me… but I was never really into the making love thing.

I find myself more and more attracted to other men and women, more every day, and I know it is because I am not happy with Brian. He is always miserable, no goals, no motivation, no dreams and wont fuck me.

I have been trotting along in this relationship, doing everything for him and I am finally at the make or break stage, I actually called the Samaritans yesterday, thats how bad it is.

There is a guy at work named Sonny, and he is ALL about me and I love it. He comes up and nuzzles me and whispers in my ear and just makes me feel beautiful and sexy. At this stage, I think if a dog gave me some sexual attention, I would be happy.

Hmmm…

And so it continues…

Ok… heres a question for the men… what does it really mean when you stop having sex with your girl / wife? OR what does it mean when your sex life becomes maybe twice a month, and it lasts about 7 minutes? HONESTLY

Timmy

October 1, 2006

Have you asked him? It’s the obvious response, but sometimes we don’t do the obvious. I really don’t have that much relationships experience, but I do know that sex drops when there are other problems in a relationship. Sex is just an end result, the cause is probably somewhere else in your relationship. Sex isn’t everything, but it’s something.

simplyhuman.

Ha i’m in the same make or break position. With the sex thing, maybe things need to be spiced up- try new positions, dressing up or toys? Maybe even a threesome? I don’t know how open you guys are. Anyhow, keep us updated and good luck. xx

mindsetofaJohn

November 7, 2006

Sorry to say that this question is out of my field of expertise, BUT I feel strongly about suggesting that you not stray off toward someone at work. I would put all of your chips in the marital basket and either go with it or get out of it. The complications that would arise from any other course of action are too great to risk.