For the ladies out there!

okay… i read this through just now and i think it has a lot of truth to it.  i’m sure there is another one just as valid for guys.

From a guys point of view:

We don’t care if you talk to other guys.

We don’t care if you’re friends with other guys.

But when you’re sitting next to us, and some random guy walks into the room and you jump up and tackle him, without even introducing us, yeah, it ticks us off.

It doesn’t help if you sit there and talk to him for ten minutes without even acknowledging the fact that we’re still there.

We don’t care if a guy calls you, but at 2 in the morning we do get a little concerned. Nothing is that important at 2 a.m. that it can’t wait till the morning.
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Also, when we tell you you’re pretty/ beautiful/ gorgeous/ cute/ stunning, we freaking mean it.

Don’t tell us we’re wrong.

We’ll stop trying to convince you.

The sexiest thing about a girl is confidence.
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Yeah, you can quote me.

Push us down on the couch and make a move once in a while. We like that aggressiveness about you and we like the unexpected. When we know you’re really happy, it makes us happy too.
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Don’t be mad when we hold the door open.
Take Advantage of the mood im in.

LET US PAY FOR YOU!

DON’T "FEEL BAD"

We enjoy doing it (Paying for you).

It’s expected.

Smile and say "thank you."
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Kiss us when no one’s watching.

If you kiss us when you know nobody’s looking we’ll be more impressed.
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You don’t have to get dressed up for us.

If we’re going out with you in the first place, you don’t have to feel the need to wear the shortest skirt you have or put on every kind of makeup you own.

We like you for WHO you are and not WHAT you are.

honestly, i think a girl looks more beautiful when she’s just in her pj’s. or my tshirt and boxers, not all dolled up

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Don’t take everything we say or the way we say it seriously.

Sarcasm is a beautiful thing. See the beauty in it.

Don’t get angry easily.

And if we argue with you, it’s because we care about you and get frustrated when you begin to second guess our feelings for one another.
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Stop using magazines/media as your bible.

***Don’t talk about how hott Morris Chesnutt, Brad Pitt, or Jesse McCartny is in front of us.

***It’s boring, and we don’t care.
You have girlfriends for that.
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Whatever happened to the word "handsome"/"beautiful"

I’d be utterly stunned by a girl who greeted me with "Hey
handsome!" instead of "Hey baby/ stud/ cutie/ sexy" or whatever else you can think of.

on the other hand im not saying I wouldn’t like it either ; )
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***Girls, I cannot stress this enough:***
IF YOU AREN’T BEING TREATED RIGHT BY A GUY, DON’T WAIT FOR HIM TO CHANGE. DITCH HIS SORRY, DISGRACE-TO-THE-MALE-POPULATION-SELF, AND FIND SOMEONE WHO WILL TREAT YOU WITH UTTER RESPECT***

Someone who will honor your morals.

Someone who will make you smile when you’re at your lowest.

Someone who will care for you even when you make mistakes.

Someone who will love you, no matter how bad you make them feel.

Someone who will stop what theyre doing just to look you in the
eyes….and say "i love you" …

….AND ACTUALLY MEAN IT!

Give the nice guys a chance!!!!!!*****