It’s topsy-turvy day EVERY day

She sleeps; I deal with the kids.  She works; I deal with the kids.  If there’s one theme in this weird-ass, role-reversed marriage, it’s this:  I deal with the kids.

I’m tired of feeling like I have no time to relax when the kids are awake.  Any noise made by the kids in the morning while she sleeps is enough to make me tense ’cause I know that she’ll wake up eventually and yell.  I know that I can’t control this, so why do I worry?

I also wonder why I bother to complain.  It’s not getting me anywhere.  I think I need more hobbies so I can ignore it all and just escape from it.

There’s a LOT more to this, of course.  I just wanted to write a few things out so I can remember to expand on them later.

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May 26, 2007

*Random noter* Ummm. Hobbies are good. Ever thought of collecting bottle tops? 🙂

May 26, 2007

~random noter~ so you complain and nothing changes. ever think of doing something more severe? like telling her it’s her turn and going out for the day? I’m sure she has at least one day off. not trying to be rude but if telling her that this bothers you isn’t working, don’t bury your head in the sand with bottle caps. do something! if you don’t, things will never change.