Been 10

It’s been 10 days since I last pissed people off on here. I don’t know why other people get SO f*cking judgemental from a bunch of words that describe my OPINIONS on life. It’s not like you actually know me or know what I’ve done and NOT done in the past. Yep, there have been some major screw ups on my part. There have also been some major nice-guy things. It balances itself out mostly. Then again, it depends on your point of view. If you’ve been cheated on by your spouse or S.O., then you’ll hate me for doing the same thing to my wife.

One of the noters on the last entry said something about guys like me expecting the wife to do everything around the house while I make plans to go out with the guys. Hahahahahahahahaha….. that’s SO not me. I cook half of the meals each week. I clean up around the house. I do my own laundry. I buy the food. I wrangle the kids. I do all the things that keep a family going, the everyday things that are boring yet necessary. Do not even THINK about bashing me for being a "typical guy" and expect me to take you seriously… just leave me the f*ck alone.

Anyway, that is it for now.

you know I’m thinking you should write YOUR DIARY for YOU. Pay no attention to the notes. I realize it’s hard, but it seems to me this is a place to vent those things that perhaps we don’t say in real life. You’ve had a tough time in your marriage and you both are justifiably angry. People’s notes really have more to do with themselves and their experiences than they actually have to do with you.I wish you and your wife the best. p.s. you know you can change the settings so that nobody can leave an unsigned note. ; > )

ricechickie

July 1, 2007

I agree with the first noter. This is your place. Would some stranger try to tell you what kind of music to listen to in your own home? (Well, yes, some would…lol). RYN: I’m not sure if you meant that I’ve got an advantage over you in that I’ve never told my husband about IM Guy. I have. He found out, we contemplated divorce, all that. Now, he doesn’t know that I still “talk” to IM Guy,

but it’s only public comments left on a very public board, not personal conversations like they used to be. So, I don’t consider them of consequence. Even if my husband would.