Safe Lube/STD’s for/from BJ’s

question about lube for a BJ:

What are some safe lubes that I can use while giving a BJ?

also

Can you get STDs from giving a BJ? How can you prevent them…won’t it be weird giving/recieving a BJ with a condom on?

Safe Lube’s – These are some that have flovor to them.

Wet Fun Flavors – Wet Fun Flavors heating massage lotion is perfect for sensual rub downs and intimate massages, it warms to the touch when you rub it, Blow on it and it gets hotter!

Wet Fun Flavors is safe to use with latex condoms. It is available in 9 delicious flavors in a generous 6.5 oz bottle.

Wet Flavored Lubricants – Wet Flavored Lubricants feels delicious, has no bitter after taste and will satisfy you and your partners sweet tooth.Yumy!
Wet Flavored Lubricants come in 10 tasty flavors with the new easy to open no-mess cap.

Rain Personal Lubricant – Line One Labs makers of the Trustex F L A V O R E D Condoms now offers the same great tasting flavored lubricants in 8 oz. bottles and .25 oz. sample packs. RAIN is specially formulated to increase the body’s natural sensitivity and heighten pleasure.
RAIN is an oil free lubricant that is long lasting, water-based and non-staining. It can be easily wiped away with water and is safe to use with latex condoms It is available in 8 delicious flavors in a generous 8 oz bottle.

ID JUICY LUBES – Juicy Lube’s clear non-staining formula contains no sugar or dyes. Won’t stain like other products. Available in 12 Juicy flavors in 4.1 oz. bottles and if you want to try out the ID Juicy Lubes before you buy a larger bottle try our sample pack which includes 12 – 10ml. pillow samples

ID Juicy Lubes are safe to use with latex condoms

Can I get HIV from oral sex?

Yes, it is possible for either partner to become infected with HIV through performing or receiving oral sex. There have been a few cases of HIV transmission from performing oral sex on a person infected with HIV. While no one knows exactly what the degree of risk is, evidence suggests that the risk is less than that of unprotected anal or vaginal sex.

If the person performing oral sex has HIV, blood from their mouth may enter the body of the person receiving oral sex through

• the lining of the urethra (the opening at the tip of the penis);
• the lining of the vagina or cervix;
• the lining of the anus; or
• directly into the body through small cuts or open sores.

If the person receiving oral sex has HIV, their blood, semen (cum), pre-seminal fluid (pre-cum), or vaginal fluid may contain the virus. Cells lining the mouth of the person performing oral sex may allow HIV to enter their body.

The risk of HIV transmission increases

• if the person performing oral sex has cuts or sores around or in their mouth or throat;
• if the person receiving oral sex ejaculates in the mouth of the person performing oral sex; or
• if the person receiving oral sex has another sexually transmitted disease (STD).

Not having (abstaining from) sex is the most effective way to avoid HIV.

If you choose to perform oral sex, and your partner is male,

• use a latex condom on the penis; or
• if you or your partner is allergic to latex, plastic (polyurethane) condoms can be used.

Studies have shown that latex condoms are very effective, though not perfect, in preventing HIV transmission when used correctly and consistently. If either partner is allergic to latex, plastic (polyurethane) condoms for either the male or female can be used. For more information about latex condoms, see “Male Latex Condoms and Sexually Transmitted Diseases.”

If you choose to have oral sex, and your partner is female,

• use a latex barrier (such as a natural rubber latex sheet, a dental dam or a cut-open condom that makes a square) between your mouth and the vagina. A latex barrier such as a dental dam reduces the risk of blood or vaginal fluids entering your mouth. Plastic food wrap also can be used as a barrier.

If you choose to

perform oral sex with either a male or female partner and this sex includes oral contact with your partners anus (analingus or rimming),

• use a latex barrier (such as a natural rubber latex sheet, a dental dam or a cut-open condom that makes a square) between your mouth and the anus. Plastic food wrap also can be used as a barrier.

If you choose to share sex toys with your partner, such as dildos or vibrators,

• each partner should use a new condom on the sex toy; and
• be sure to clean sex toys between each use.

If you would like more information or have personal concerns, call the CDC National AIDS Hotline at 1-800-342-AIDS (2437) (English), 1-800-344-SIDA (7432) (Spanish), or 1-800-243-7889 (TTY).

It is a little weird giving/recieving a BJ with a condom on, but then again it isn’t, If you use a normal condom when giving a BJ you taste the rubber on the condom, but I put up some flovers ones so that shouldn’t be a preblem. There are some guys that say they don’t like the feel of a condom on when you are giving then a BJ, (even with sex), but then again some told me that they just say that because they like it better with out a condom. It may be true that they can’t feel as much, but we all need to look to what is safe for us. And not wearing on isn’t being safe. The only way for you to be safe is to use a condom or not has sex, those are the only two things that are safer then having sex with out a condom.

Unless you know the person doesn’t have HIV/AIDS then you will be ok, but even then at times your not, because people can have HIV and not show up (even if they are tested) for some years (can’t remember how many). AIDS isn’t the only thing you can get from giving a BJ with out a condom, there are some others I believe too, but this is the one I posted about. Just have fun and be as safe as you can. Hope this helps you. Take Care!

Sex*Goddess

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