Never get off with penetration. Is that normal?

hey i was wondering if you could help me out. Im new to sex haha, and my bf and i havent had a lot of sex (i moved across the country for 3 months im back in dec) and i enjoy sex with him a lot, but i never get off with penetration. Is that normal? or do we need to try different positions or am I just one of the unlucky ones where i just get off with clitoral stimulation 🙁 lol. thanks 🙂

p.s. if u post this at all can u just leave my name out? lol thanks

Yes it is normal for a female not to have an orgasm from penetration. It’s easy to think that it’s not normal for a female not to have one with penetration, but that’s just not the case. Good for us I say. Who would want that to be true anyway? lol Anyway, so I wouldn’t worry to much about that. It’s a good idea to try different positions. The best position for a female to have an orgasm is girl on top. More females has had one that way, though it may not be right away that it happens, just try different positions or different ways of doing some that you have done already and see what happens.

I have posts already up on here that may help you out more, just look around. I know it’s alot of posts to go through, but just go to my website (The link is at the end up this post.) and that will help you to get to posts easier. Though I don’t have all my post up on that site, but alot of them are up there.

Oh and as for leaving your name out, don’t worry about that, if it is a private note I never put the name up. 🙂

Hope this helps.

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November 4, 2008

That just means more oral. Yay oral!!! Also, masturbate more. If you don’t know what gets you off, there’s no way you can ever help him get you off.

About 1/2 of the women I’ve been with were able to orgasm by just penetration…but still I think there was clitoral contact between us…the other 1/2 I could make them orgasm with tongue and fingers..

RYN: “though not wearing a bra… ” One word for that…YUMMY…

November 5, 2008

I cant orgasm with a man. I can get myself off, but none of the guys I have been with have been able to get me off.

November 29, 2008

im the same way. only my vibrator has made me cum and not every time. sexually active for about 5 years and only come about 4/5 times…all with my vibrator =(