Don’t Stay Hard with Condom

my boyfriend is a lot more sexually advanced than i am (i could count the times i have done it on one hand). what i don’t understand is why he can’t stay hard with a condom on. he says that he never had to use one before because his ex-gf was on the pill, so he says he’s not used to them. he gets hard and there is precum, but as soon as the condom goes on for intercourse he just goes limp… ..so we never get to have sex, i just have to pull him off which leaves me pretty unsatisfied. my real question is, is it normal for the penis to go soft when a condom goes on? he says he can’t feel a thing…like he doesn’t have a penis anymore…how can i keep him hard?

Go here http://www.geocities.com/theesweetprincess/safesex.htm and there are some posts up that will help you out, help him to get use to the condom and what to do to help him get use to it.

There is something else as well, that isn’t in that link and I can’t seem to find, but anyway…. if the other things in that link don’t help he can’t always use a cock ring why he has the condom on. That will help him to stay hard why the condom is on him, but he will have to be becareful why he is inside you. Wearing a cock ring  make the guy really hard so at times it can hurt the female when he is inside her if he goes to fast. He can go fast, just at first you need to take it slow, then you can go faster when you are ready.  I have a post up on this if you want to look for it, it have more info on it I believe.

As for it being normal, not to normal no, but it does happen. It doesn’t happen to all guys, but it does happen to some, so in a way it is normal, just not to normal to hear about it all the time. Some guys say that they can’t feel anything with a condom on, others tell you that is a lie, so who is to say, but that is no reason not to wear on..I hope this helps you and he can get use to the condom. Take Care!

Sex*Goddess

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