My BestFriend Calls Me Crazy But Its What I Want

If i didnt have a miscarriage i was going to keep my child no matter what anyone said.

So since i did i have a miscarriage i want to get pregnant again.

Even tho i didnt kno how my ex boyfriend felt about me being pregnant because i didnt

tell him untill i had my miscarriage and if i didnt had have my miscarriage and the

test read positive i would have cried in happyness with my bestfriend,

her sister and her cousin. Then i would have told my girlfriend

and then i would have told him. But even if i he didnt want me

to have our child i still would have and if he wanted to be there then he could

and if he didnt want to be there then fuck him.

But idk i just want to be pregnant again

Because iam very mature for my age and i know i can handle it i mean i basically

raised my 10yr old sister. Because my mother was never home or didnt care.

But idk maybe this is another part of the grief process.

Because i just want my baby girl or boy back

Mrs.4 Eyes

October 11, 2009

i think it might be. give yourself time.

AnJ Marie

girl, just wait until you find out what you REALLY want. Since i lost noah one day i want a baby the next i dont. Im confused. Im ‘babysick’. I think you should atlease wait.. no matter how mature you are once you hit that age where you can kick it and do whatever you want, and then you cant cuz you have a baby you’ll be wishen you didnt try. I say, if it happends it happends.. if not, it doesnt.

but, what do i kno. Im 21, in my Prime party stage.. and i want to be a mommy SO bad. lol.

~~*Megan*~~

ok hun, even if you think your mature enough to handle a child you really aren’t. you have no way to support it and trust me a child right now will ruin the rest of your life. listen to yourself this is not good. sorry to be frank but you will seriously ruin your life.

skyflyer

October 12, 2009

I am so sorry for what happened, and it makes complete sense for you to want your baby back–but that doesn’t mean you should get pregnant again right away. when you do have a baby, you want to give it the best life possible, right? if you have a baby now, how are you going to take care of it? how are you going to get a job that will pay you enough to support a baby? feeling like you’re mature

enough is great, but that isn’t the only thing to consider. you need to be able to stand on your own two feet before you bring another little person into the world. and (imo) you’d probably want a baby to be born into a steady, committed relationship, so it wouldn’t have the trauma of dealing with split up parents and different guys in and out of the house throughout its childhood.