Not a priority

Here’s the thing about people’s times: It can only fit in what they prioritize!

Many times people complain that they do not have time when in actuality, the little time that they have will only be given to what they prioritize, so if they don’t have time for it, it really isn’t their priority. Period! It’s not a matter or availability, resources or anything, it is simply because every other thing that they do is more important than than particular thing.

Someone once told me that it is impossible to find people our age almost always not busy, if it is the case, then there’s something wrong with that person. We are always busy, we should be! But understanding that we will only give time to what is of value to us no matter how busy we are is what sets the difference here!

The same goes with people or relationships! You  will only prioritize the relationships you value no matter how busy you are! If you don’t prioritize them, then you do not value them and that is totally okay, and it is up to the next person to understand your priorities.

What should the next person do when they are not prioritized? Well it is simply difficult to understand that you are not a priority to someone, especially if you value that person. But- to be really fair on one’s self, you need to understand the type relationship you want and if you are not receiving it from that person- because they have other important things to do- you need to leave and value yourself and your time.

You were bought at a price! Do not sell yourself short to people or relationships that do not care about you… for the least of things, if your ‘energy’ is not reciprocated, it’s not worth it giving it to someone who has other priorities.

This text shouldn’t be misunderstood, it is clearly stating that one’s should know their worth and where to place it in the hands of time. Firstly that you will make time for things that you care about and that you should not feel bad about it and secondly that you should separate yourself from things that do not prioritize you!