The TRUE meaning of “Baby Girl”

Hello:

 
Well, where do I start.  Jeez!! 

 I have decided to accept the position with the other company.  It feels right.  I met with my boss and her husband and it seems like a great opportunity!  I am excited.  I am going to put in my two weeks tomorrow.  I am trippin because I have like 90 plus hours in sick time and I will not have an opportunity to use it.  You get paid your vacation hours but not your sick time. I am glad that I am not sick.  Thank God!  I of course only have a little bit of vacation time. LOL! Anyway, but so another chapter of my life will begin starting August 15th   (my start date with the new company)

 Bert- Well remember when I said I saw him and he said he was going to see his "Baby Girl", well boy was I shocked to find out that he has a (BABY GIRL)two week old daughter. The way I found out was I was talking to my boss and she was like "Bert’s a nice young man, I didn’t even realize he had a baby on the way." I tried to hold back the emotions on my face and I said I didn’t either.  Then I put two and two together and I thought about the baby girl statement and I was like damn, that’s f*cked up, he could have told me! I am doing the math like ..ugh..some girl was walking around all big and pregnant with his child and we are out going to dinners and movies..ect.  Okay, so I was trippin.  I talked to one of my co-workers who knew we went out here and there.  She told me she thought I knew and that the baby mama wasn’t anybody serious it just “sort of happened” and she told me she talked to him and he really likes me and blah blah..Whatever!  I told her I didn’t know and she said I should say something to him. 

  Yesterday- He came by my office and I told him I needed to talk to him for a second.  I told him Congratulations were in order and I asked him why he didn’t tell me.  He sighed and told me he really just found out to weeks ago after they did a paternity test.  He said he knew it was a possibility but it was very unexpected and that he just met the girl in October one thing led to another and nine months later they have a daughter.  He assured me that everything he ever told me was the truth about him not dating anyone, and not having any kids.  I listened and told him he could have told me and talked to me.

 
  So now he has this baby with this stranger and he is going through a lot, on top of that he got locked up the other night because his license was suspended and he didn’t even know.  He got stopped for doing 47 in a 35 and they ran the license and locked his a$$ up!  I mean, jail outfit and all.  Can you believe that sh*t.  This is new to him, he is scared and frustrated and he doesn’t understand why the girl is trying to “be together” when all it was from jump was a sex thing and he says she’s jealous like “How can you like the baby and not like me.” And all this other drama! He thinks I guess that this perfect world exists where they can be friends and take care of the baby and she moves on with her life and he moves on with his and everybody’s happy, no jealousy is involved and no spitefulness.  YEAH RIGHT!  Anyway, he felt really good since now his big secret is out and he can talk to me about it so I guess that’s good. My friend asked me what if he wanted to start dating again or pursue a relationship with me.  I didn’t know what to say.  I like Bert but I think he definitely has too much drama and the baby mama is too ignorant and jealous and I would be setting myself up and selling myself short.

  Well that’s it!  Till next time. Comments appreciated!