Friendships Reformed
Friendship is a funny thing. I mean some people you never expected you would be friends with sometimes become your best friends. I have a lot of different friends and they all contribute something different.
Well about 6 months ago me and a really good friend(Hayley) stop talking. I didn’t know why but I get tired of trying to figure people out so I was like f*ck it. She didn’t call me and I didn’t call her. Not that she wasn’t a good friend but I just get tired of catering sometimes..that’s just me.
Anyway, as time went on it was really strange that we had not talked or shall I say that she did not call me. So every blue moon I would try to call but I never got her so it was like whatever. The other day I tried to call Hayley again and I finally got her. I was shocked! Come to find out, she was upset with me because she thought I sent out invitatiins to my housewarming and left her out. Sooo Petty! We talked and she apologized and everything was cleared up. Friendship is a funny thing. Anyway, I have enjoyed telling her everything that has happened over the last 6 months and we are truly just sooo excited to talk again.
Like I said, I have many friends and they are all different. She is a great friend and she is the one who I can tell ANYTHING..and I do mean ANY and EVERYTHING and she doesn’t judge me at all. She is the friend I can talk to hours everyday and maybe only see her a couple of times a year. It’s crazy but it works for us. I didn’t realize how much I missed her until I had her back in my life and I am thankful that I stepped outside my box and tried to reach her so we could end this petty drama.
That’s it I guess. I really don’t feel like typing anything else.
Thanks for reading.
It’s funny that sometimes really stupid reasons can get people offended. I’m not that kind of person (that could get so offended) so I never understand if the other person has special reasons for not calling or what – but what upsets me is the friends that don’t call you (it’s a vicious circle). I think that it’s very hard to have characters that can complement and have “sustainable” friendships.
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You are lucky to have a friend like this and a character that doesn’t prevent you from trying “bravely” to find out what went wrong with that person.
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Cool! RYN: I don’t know what the hang up is. I will tell you this. 1. The government isn’t your friend. 2. The people that work for the government are morons. 3. The government will happily take your money from you, but is in no big rush to give it back you. It doesn’t matter, if you are entitled to it. You should call them. They might just be slow in processing.
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RYN: I dont have a problem with a girl having kids. But…seeing how she interacts with those kids along with the other traits I see while we are together I can kinda see what “our” future holds…if there is to be one. I dont think Ive ever said I dont want kids. They are something SERIOUS to consider, but its not a “deal-breaker”.
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Just wondering but do you or anyone else reading this have the friends that disappear? I have about 3 friends that are really good friends, when they are around, but for no reason just disappear for months at a time. Everything is cool you see ’em one day and make palns for the next, call and they are gone..off the face of the earth. Hmm, maybe its just me.
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I have a good friend who is completely unreliable in keeping in contact. It’s very annoying, but always fun to catch-up.
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yea friendship can be reallt tricky, sometimes u have friends that are not really your friends, u know the ones that talk bad about u behind your back and plot against u. i havent dealt with that yet cause i pretty much keep my friends a good distance and as matter of fact i dont even talk 2 them on talk 2 one person and he is gay but he keeps in touch with everyone.
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