Break-up Advice

Hello People:

 

I am facing a big break-up and I am trying to figure out the best way to handle it.  Myles and I have been dating since October 2007.  Anyway, it’s over but we still love each other deeply.  Can we remain friends and move on…Can I really do that?

 I cannot imagine not talking to him or going cold turkey without him at all but I know realisticly if we continue to be around each other and talk all the time, I will not move on the way I need to and it would kill me to see him or know he is seeing someone else if I am not dating or seeing someone.

I have cried…still cry..and I know it will hurt for a while but I am okay with this because I think in the end whatever is meant to be… will be.  This whole thing has been so emotional and I am so tired of crying.  But, I really think I am at peace with this..well as long he doesn’t immediately start dating someone else..Man, I thought he might have been the one.  Anyway, I have prayed and cried, cried and prayed..nothing more to do I guess..I have to trust God and give it to him.

Advice Appreciated

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July 21, 2009

girrrl i am in the same situation. i guess best thing to do is just back off? idk. if u feel uve done everything to make it work in your relationship, then its time for a new path. my guy wont even reply to my txt messages when all i want is my tennis equipment back. i never heard of such a thing! it will get better in time (leona lewis if u wanna hear her song. thats what im dng)

July 22, 2009

Break it off. Give yourself a bunch of time before talking to him again. That’ll give you a chance to move on. I hope you are okay. I’d like to give you a hug. 😉